Saturday, May 30, 2009

Little Red Wagon

We finally found the wheels to JG's little, red wagon. They were in a safe place of course; at the back of JG's closet. As expected JG loved hanging onto the sides and going for a ride. I have to admit that it is much easier to pull him along in the summer months! The wagon does convert to a useful sled during the winter but, it works so much better with wheels. It also reminded me of a song or two....

Bumpin' Up and Down in my Little Red Wagon

Bumpin' up and down in my little red wagon
Bumpin' up and down in my little red wagon
Bumpin' up and down in my little red wagon
We're havin' so much fun

Pull me around in my little red wagon
Pull me around in my little red wagon
Pull me around in my little red wagon
We're havin' so much fun

Turn the corner in my little red wagon
Turn the corner in my little red wagon
Turn the corner in my little red wagon
We're havin' so much fun

Here come my friends in their little red wagons
Here come my friends in their little red wagons
Here come my friends in their little red wagons
We're havin' so much fun

Bumpin' up and down in our little red wagons
Bumpin' up and down in our little red wagons
Bumpin' up and down in our little red wagons
We're havin' so much fun

Thursday, May 28, 2009

Learning Language

JG's development is right where it should be for both his gross and fine motor skills but, he is lacking in language skills; which has had me concerned over the last couple months. Although JG's pediatrician has assured us "not to worry" I am still determined to help JG reach these pivotal language milestones in any way we can. At his recent immunization appointment we were given a referral for a speech and language assessment. I contacted the assessment office today and as per their advice DH and I are now scheduled for an "Encouraging First Words" workshop on July 9th to get things started.

On Tuesday I visited with a friend who has a beautiful son approximately one year older then JG and a very happy 6 month old son who is an absolute joy. Her 2 1/2 year old has an excellent vocabulary. The 6 month old is already babbling and cooing. It won't surprise me if he will be an early talker as well. The youngest of the two was delighted to hear rhymes and songs. He was very observant regardless of whether he was lying in a swing or laying on the floor. Watching intently at the hand actions to "Insy Weensy Spider" and excited at hearing the alphabet song and numerous other tunes.

I've had many friends ask me if I "miss that age" and although I desperately want to say "yes" without hesitation; I can't. JG was a puker from the first day of his arrival. Not just plain spit up or an occasional bout of upset stomach. But, full out projectile vomit! We tried everything (breast milk, several different formulas and eventually medication (Prevacid twice per day). Even the soy based formula and medication didn't prevent the continual regurgitation we dealt with on a daily basis. JG hated swings and was usually not even happy lying on the floor. I don't recall a single day from his first eight months where JG's clothes or my shirt remained clean for more then a few hours. It was overwhelming!

JG has been read to at least twice per day since birth. We certainly sing our fair share of lullabies and songs and we do have an assortment of board books, puzzles and flashcards. However, because of JG's sensitive digestive system I don't know that we were able to play the fun action songs ("This Little Piggy", "Insy Weensy Spider", "Round and Round the Garden", etc) that most infants are exposed to. JG was often to busy trying to keep the contents of his stomach down. Observing the speech of adults was the least of his concerns. I feel somewhat guilty and I can't help but blame myself; wondering if perhaps I am at fault for JG's language delay.

Now as a toddler JG's digestion has vastly improved. The problem is, that like most toddlers, JG is not interested in staying still long enough to observe the mouth formations of the people around him. JG wants to dance, move, slide and run! So, what's a parent to do?

Friday, May 22, 2009

Just a Game of Bear Hugs

What a tough little guy we have! JG had his 18 month immunizations done yesterday and the only wet eyes in the room were mine (no tears but, they were watering pretty good). JG did give the nurse quite the evil look after the second needle (not that I can blame him) but, overall he was fantastic.

I suppose that after the countless falls (from learning to walk at 10 months) and the usual bumps and bruises experienced by most toddlers his age; JG would certainly be strong enough to withstand a couple pricks with a needle. But, as a mother I am truly grateful that JG's next set of immunizations will not need to be done until he starts school. Like most people, I am certainly not a fan of needles and I have not enjoyed watching my child being pricked with them either (even if they are necessary). Thankfully, I have always been able to arrange JG's immunization appointments so that DH could be there to hold JG steady.

With a son that is so much bigger and taller then many of his peers JG has a tendency to be overly affectionate (to the point of being aggressive) that often intimidates and scares his less energetic playmates. Recently, I have asked DH to try and be less rambunctious when playing with JG because although our son loves to roughhouse play with his Dad; I think that it is important that JG learn to be more gentle. I have certainly experienced enough of JG's "body-slam bear hugs" to know that our methods for teaching gentler behaviour could use some improvement.

JG loves to be around other children and he loves babies. He also loves dogs, birds and other pets. However, in his excitement, JG tends to invade the "personal space" of both the children and animals he is so intent on getting to know.

I don't think JG intends to hurt anyone and his aggression does not stem from anger or frustration. I think that JG just doesn't know his own strength and that his well-intentioned "bear hugs" and "love pats" have turned into a game. Unfortunately he doesn't realize that his acts of affection are becoming less and less gentle as he becomes older and stronger. I don't want to discorage JG from being the friendly, loving toddler that he is; I just would like to help him tone it down a little.

Wednesday, May 20, 2009

Parachute Songs

On Saturday we took JG to his regular Gymboree class where he always has lots of fun! During the "parachute play" portion of his class (something JG absolutely loves) the instructor often performs a lap song or two ("Grand Olde Duke of York" etc...) using a large, stuffed "Gimbo the clown" puppet. JG is usually much too energetic and excited to sit on our laps during any portion of his gym class; he prefers to dance and move around instead. However, on this particular Saturday, JG caught the attention of all the other parents when he approached the instructor during laptime and proceeded to give "Gimbo" a loving hug! I wish I had a camera to capture the moment.


The Grand Olde Duke of York (with parent/child actions)

He had ten thousand men
He marched them up to the top of the hill
And he marched them down again.

And when they were up they were up
and when they were down they were down
and when they were only half way up
They were neither up nor down

He marched them to the left
He marched them to the right
And then he marched them upside down
Oh, what a silly sight.

Movements
Sit with the child in your lap. Bounce your knees to simulate movement.
He marched them up - Slowly raise your knees to simulate marching uphill
Marched them down - slowly lower your knees to simulate marching downhill
When they were up - Quickly raise your knees
When they were down - Quickly lower your knees
When they were only half way - Set you knees at a height half way between all the way up and all the way down.
Marched them to the left - Lean your child to the left
Marched them to the right - Lean your child to the right.
Marched them upside down - hold your child upside down over your knees ( don't drop them ! ), then put them back in your lap

JG'S favorite part of parachute play is when we fly the colourful chute into the air and crawl under it creating a domed house. Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star is a popular song to sing while under the parachute and so are the following rhymes....

Red and Yellow, Green and Blue (sung to the tune "twinkle, twinkle, little star")

Red and yellow, green and blue
These are colours over you
Red like an apple
Green like a tree
Yellow like the sun
And blue like the sea
Red and yellow, green and blue
These are colours over you


Come Under My Umbrella

Come under my umbrella,
Umbrella, umbrella
Come under my umbrella
It’s starting to storm
With thunder and lightning
And wind and rain
Come under my umbrella
It’s starting to storm

Friday, May 15, 2009

Crayons & Paint Will Have To Wait...

Admittedly, today has been one of those days where I seriously questioned my desire to be a parent (or a stay-at-home mom at the very least). JG tested the limits of my patience today. So much so, that I actually cried.

I really do love being a mom and I purposely ignore the stereotypical statements made by so many others who describe the toddler years as "terrible" and "catastrophic." I prefer thinking of these upcoming months as the "terrific-twos" and "thriving-threes." Unfortunataly today was not one of those "sunnier side of life" days.

I am really looking forward to watching my child's creativity grow. I want to see our refridgerator doors covered in art. I want the handprint turkey's at Thaksgiving, the half-eaten gingerbread houses at Christmas and the stick-family portraits proudly displayed amongst unrecognizable play-doh sculptures. However today's mayhem of artistic blunders has me convinced that JG just isn't ready to express his inner-Picasso.

I tried colouring with JG this morning with his Crayola crayon Tadoodles but, he was more interested in throwing them on the floor then creating a colourful masterpiece. Later, I tried to entice JG to finger paint with the edible paints I made using vanilla pudding and food colouring. This again, did not encourage the open-ended creativity I was hoping for! Instead JG simply attempted to drink the paint from the paint pots and became irritable and whiny when I tried to persuade him to paint. While I was cleaning up from the unsuccessful finger paint disaster JG found the misplaced television remote and proceeded to climb a step stool so he could "wash" it in the soapy dish water. Although I did catch him before he immersed the entire remote in suds; the remote is not functioning very well and will probably need to be replaced. My final attempt at artistic fun with JG (before I burst into tears) was play-doh! This also failed miserably with JG being more interested in the play-doh containers then the actual contents!

I realize that today may just not have been the "right" day to encourage JG's creative side and that tomorrow could be an entirely different day. However, I think I will set aside the art supplies for a few days so that we can contine to hear the sounds of fun and laughter throughout the day instead of frustration and tears.

Monday, May 11, 2009

Quotes Of Motherhood - Happy Mother's Day!

Well, it was a wonderful Mother's Day weekend. I received a lovely bouquet of flowers "with love from JG and Daddy" on Friday afternoon. On Saturday we took JG to his Gymboree class and enjoyed some quality time together and on Sunday we spent the better part of the day at the "Telus World of Science."

Telus World of Science? Somehow it just doesn't sound right! When I was younger it was called "The Space Science Center" and then later it became "The Odyssium." Now it is called "Telus World of Science." Corporate funding and thus, naming seems to have become the norm everywhere! From parks and zoos to stadiums and arenas it seems that every leisure and recreational location across the country requires a corporate stamp of approval to stay afloat.

I certainly believe in the adage that "it is better to give than to receive" and I do feel strongly that corporate donations are an integral part of renewing and improving public spaces. However, "corporate naming" has always seemed somewhat arrogant and patronizing to me. Recognizing a substantial donation of money is just and in many cases honourable but, renaming a facility for the sake of a financial contribution seems unnecessarily pretentious. What then do we offer corporations and individuals who give of their time and expertise instead of a padded wallet?

Mothers (and Fathers) certainly give a tremendous amount of time, love and expertise for which they often receive little; if any recognition. Thank goodness for Mother's (and Father's) Day! Otherwise we may just forget to remember and thank the important people in our lives that help us stay afloat!

MOTHERS

Real Mothers don't eat quiche;
They don't have time to make it.

Real Mothers know that their kitchen utensils
Are probably in the sandbox.

Real Mothers often have sticky floors,
Filthy ovens and happy kids.

Real Mothers know that dried play dough
Doesn't come out of carpets.

Real Mothers don't want to know what
The vacuum just sucked up.

Real Mothers sometimes ask 'Why me?'
And get their answer when a little
Voice says, 'Because I love you best.'

Real Mothers know that a child's growth
Is not measured by height or years or grade...
It is marked by the progression of Mommy to Mom to Mother...

The Images of Mother

4 YEARS OF AGE - My Mommy can do anything!

8 YEARS OF AGE - My Mom knows a lot! A whole lot!

12 YEARS OF AGE - My Mother doesn't really know quite everything.

14 YEARS OF AGE - Naturally, Mother doesn't know that, either.

16 YEARS OF AGE - Mother? She's hopelessly old-fashioned.

18 YEARS OF AGE - That old woman? She's way out of date!

25 YEARS OF AGE - Well, she might know a little bit about it!

35 YEARS OF AGE - Before we decide, let's get Mom's opinion.

45 YEARS OF AGE - Wonder what Mom would have thought about it?

65 YEARS OF AGE - Wish I could talk it over with Mom.

Saturday, May 9, 2009

Block Play

JG seems to have a renewed interest in blocks the last couple of weeks. For his first birthday JG received Mega Block sets from a few different familly members and friends. We combined all the sets into a large, clear, plastic box to make the blocks more accessible and easier to cleanup.

Unti just recently block play usually involved significant adult participation. Most of our block play invloved Mom or Dad building a tower and then JG knocking them over or taking the blocks apart. JG would occassonally add a block here or there but then he would quickly lose interest.

Over the past couple weeks we have observed JG purposely going to the block box to create his own small materpieces. JG is starting to build his own towers and he has begun to recognize that some of the blocks are the same shape and size so they fit together more easily. JG`s fine motor skills are also improving with his increased block play. Hopefully this will help JG master other activities requiring fine motor skills such as self-feeding and colouring.

Thursday, May 7, 2009

Lullabies & Bedtime Songs

With approval from the paediatrician we bought JG his very first pillow yesterday. Just a small travel size pillow with a couple washable pillow covers. We have not moved JG out of his crib yet but, we felt that he was ready for a pillow. During the night we've usually found JG sleeping with his blankets rolled up under his head so the pillow should be a fairly natural transition.

JG was a cuddle bug yesterday and now that he is an active toddler I relish in the few precious moments when he just wants to rest his head upon my shoulder. Quiet moments when I would sing lullabies and gently rock him to sleep seem so long ago.

I still sing lullabies (though not quite as often) but, like many parents it took me some time and in many cases research to recall the lyrics to my favorite bedtime tunes.

Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star

Twinkle, twinkle little star,
How I wonder what you are.
Up Above the world so high,
Like a diamond in the sky.
Twinkle, twinkle little star,
How I wonder what you are.

When the blazing sun is gone,
When he nothing shines upon,
Then you show your little light,
Twinkle, twinkle all the night.
Twinkle, twinkle little star,
How I wonder what you are.

Then the traveller in the dark,
Thanks you for your tiny spark,
He could not see which way to go,
If you did not twinkle so.
Twinkle, twinkle little star,
How I wonder what you are.

In the dark blue sky you keep,
Often through my curtain peep,
For you never shut you eye,
Till the sun is in the sky.
Twinkle, twinkle little star,
How I wonder what you are.

Hush, Little Baby (Mockingbird Song)

Hush, little baby,
Don't say a word,
Mama's (or Papa's) gonna buy you a mockingbird.
And if that mockingbird don't sing,
Mama's (or Papa's) gonna buy you a diamond ring.
And if that Diamond Ring turns to brass,
Mama's (or Papa's) gonna buy you a looking glass,
And if that looking glass get broke,
Mama's (or Papa's) gonna buy you a billy goat.
And if that billy goat won't pull,
Mama's (or Papa's) gonna buy you a cart and bull.
And if that cart and bull falls over,
Mama's (or Papa's) gonna buy you a dog named Rover.
And if that dog named Rover won't bark,
Mama's (or Papa's) gonna buy you a horse and cart.
And if that horse and cart fall down,
You'll still be the sweetest little baby in town.

When You Wish Upon A Star (Lyrics by Ned Washington and Music by Leigh Harline)
(From the Walt Disney movie Pinocchio)


When a star is born
They posses a gift or two
One of them is this
They have the power to make a wish come true.

When you wish upon a star
Makes no difference who you are
Anything your heart desires will come to you.

If your heart is in your dream
No request is to extreme
When you wish upon a star as dreamers do.

Fate is kind,
She brings to those who love,
The sweet fulfillment of their secret longing.

Like a bolt out of the blue,
Fate steps in and sees you through
When you wish upon a star
Your dreams come true.

Somewhere Over The Rainbow (Music and Lyrics by E.Y. Harburg and Harold Arlen)
(From "The Wizard Of Oz")


**The second verse did not appear in the movie and thus is largely unknown even though it was part of the original score. Occasionally the second verse appears in some theatrical productions**

Somewhere over the rainbow
Way up high
There's a land that I heard of
Once in a lullaby.

Somewhere over the rainbow
Skies are blue
And the dreams that you dare to dream
Really do come true

Someday I'll wish upon a star
And wake up where the clouds are far behind me.
Where troubles melt like lemon drops
Away above the chimney tops
That's where you'll find me.

Somewhere over the rainbow
Bluebirds fly.
If birds fly over the rainbow
Why then, oh why, can't I?
If happy little bluebirds fly beyond the rainbow
Why oh, why can't I?

Someday I'll wake and rub my eyes
And in that land beyond the skies you'll find me.
I'll be a laughing daffodil
And leave the silly cares that fill
My mind behind me.
If happy little bluebirds fly beyond the rainbow
Why oh, why can't I?

Somewhere over the rainbow
Way up high
There's a land that I heard of
Once in a lullaby.

Somewhere over the rainbow
Skies are blue
And the dreams that you dare to dream
Really do come true

Someday I'll wish upon a star
And wake up where the clouds are far behind me.
Where troubles melt like lemon drops
Away above the chimney tops
That's where you'll find me.

Somewhere over the rainbow
Bluebirds fly.
If birds fly over the rainbow
Why then, oh why, can't I?
If happy little bluebirds fly beyond the rainbow
Why oh, why can't I?

Rainbow Connection (Music and Lyrics by Paul Williams and Kenneth Ascher)
(From "The Muppet Movie")


Why are there so many songs about rainbows
And what's on the other side?
Rainbows are visions, but only illusions,
And rainbows have nothing to hide.
So we've been told and some choose to believe it
I know they're wrong, wait and see.
Someday we'll find it, the rainbow connection,
the lovers. the dreamers and me.

Who said that every wish would be heard and answered
When wished on the morning star?
Somebody thought of that
And someone believed it,
And looks what its done so far.
What's so amazing that keeps us stargazing?
And what do we think we might see?
Someday we'll find it, the rainbow connection,
The lovers, the dreamers and me.

All of us under its spell,
We know that it's probably magic....

Have you been half asleep
And have you heard voices?
I've heard them calling my name.
Is this the sweet sound that calls the young sailors?
The voice might be one and the same.
I've heard it too many times to ignore it,
It's something that I'm supposed to be.
Someday we'll find it, the rainbow connection,
The lovers, the dreamers and me.

La, la la, La, la la la, La Laa, la la, La, La la laaaaaaa


Return to Pooh Corner (Music and lyrics by Kenny Loggins)

**This has to be one of my favorite songs and one of my favorite children's recordings. I usually buy this cd as a baby gift for any new parents I know. I have also calmed and settled many children including my own from simply singing this song - Thank you Kenny Loggins for writing it!**

Christopher Robin and I walked along
Under branches lit up by the moon
Posing our questions to Owl and Eeyore
As our days disappeared all too soon
But I've wandered much further today than I should
And I can't seem to find my way back to the Wood

So help me if you can
I've got to get back
To the House at Pooh Corner by one
You'd be surprised
There's so much to be done
Count all the bees in the hive
Chase all the clouds from the sky
Back to the days of Christopher Robin and Pooh

Winnie the Pooh doesn't know what to do
Got a honey jar stuck on his nose
He came to me asking for help and advice
And from here no one knows where he goes
So I sent him to ask of the Owl if he's there
How to loosen a jar from the nose of a bear

It's hard to explain how a few precious things
Seem to follow throughout all our lives
After all's said and done I was watching my son
Sleeping there with my bear by his side
So I tucked him in, I kissed him and as I was going
I swear that the old bear whispered
"Boy welcome home"

Believe me if you can
I've finally come back
To the House at Pooh Corner by one
What do you know
There's so much to be done
Count all the bees in the hive
Chase all the clouds from the sky
Back to the days of Christopher Robin
Back to the ways of Christopher Robin
Back to the days of Pooh


All The Pretty Little Ponies (Additional Lyrics by Kenny Loggins and David Pack)

**As I have mentioned above; the cd "Return to Pooh Corner" by Kenny Loggins is well worth the purchase for anyone looking for a truly wonderful collection of quiet bedtime tunes. All The Pretty Little Ponies (or Horses) is another traditional tune for which many people are familiar. I especially like this version of the song.**

Hush a bye
Don't you cry
Go to sleep my little baby.
When you wake
You shall have
All the pretty little ponies.

In your bed
Momma said
Baby's riding off to dreamland.
One by one
They've begun
Dance and prance for little baby.

Blacks and bays, dapples and greys
Running in the night.
When you wake
You shall have
All the pretty little ponies.

Can you see the little ponies
Dance before your eyes.
All the pretty little ponies
Will be there when you arise.

Puff The Magic Dragon (Music and Lyrics by Leonard Lipton and Peter Yarrow)

**Although the ending to this song is somewhat sad it is still one of my favorites to sing at bedtime.**

Puff, the magic dragon lived by the sea
And frolicked in the autumn mist in a land called Honalee,
Little Jackie Paper loved that rascal Puff
and brought him strings and sealing wax and other fancy stuff.

CHORUS
Oh! Puff, the magic dragon lived by the sea
And frolicked in the autumn mist in a land called Honalee,
Puff, the magic dragon lived by the sea
And frolicked in the autumn mist in a land called Honalee.

Together they would travel on a boat with billowed sail,
Jackie kept a lookout perch on Puff's gigantic tail,
Noble kings and princes would bow whene'er they came,
Pirate ships would low'r their flags when Puff roared out his name.

CHORUS

A dragon lives forever but not so little boys
Painted wings and giant strings make way for other toys.
One great night it happened, Jackie Paper came no more
And Puff that mighty dragon, he ceased his fearless roar.

His head was bent in sorrow - green scales fell like rain,
Puff no longer went to play along the cherry lane.
Without his lifelong friend Puff could not be brave
So Puff that mighty dragon, sadly slipped into his cave.


CHORUS


A Dream Is A Wish Your Heart Makes (Music and Lyrics by Mack David, Al Hoffman and Jerry Livingston)
(From the Walt Disney movie "Cinderella")

**A collection of bedtime lullabies would not be complete without a song about dreaming. It took us nearly two years to conceive JG and so this song is particularly dear to my heart.**

A dream is a wish your heart makes
When you're fast asleep.
In dreams you will lose your heartaches
Whatever you wish for, you keep.

Have faith in your dreams and someday
Your rainbows will come smiling through.
No matter how your heart is grieving
If you keep on believing
the dream that you wish will come true.

A dream is a wish your heart makes
When you're feeling small.
Alone in the night you whisper
Thinking no one can hear you at all.
You wake with the morning sunlight
To find fortune that is smiling on you.
Don't let your heart be filled with sorrow
For all you know, tomorrow
The dream that you wish will come true.

You wake with the morning sunlight
To find fortune that is smiling on you.
Don't let your heart be filled with sorrow
For all you know, tomorrow
The dream that you wish will come true.

No matter how your heart is grieving
If you keep on believing
The dream that you wish will come true.

Stay Awake (Music and Lyrics by Richard M. Sherman and Robert B. Sherman)
(From the Walt Disney movie "Mary Poppins")


Stay awake, don't rest your head.
Don't lie down upon your bed.
While the moon drifts in the skies
Stay awake, don't close your eyes.

Though the world is fast asleep.
Though your pillow's soft and deep.
You're not sleepy as you seem.
Stay awake, don't nod and dream.
Stay awake, don't nod and dream.

Feed The Birds (Music and Lyrics by Richard M. Sherman and Robert B. Sherman)
From the Walt Disney movie "Mary Poppins")


**I really love this song and I enjoy singing it to JG. I have friends whom feel the tune is too sombre for a bedtime lullaby but, I disagree so, I have included it here.**

Early each day to the steps of Saint Paul's
The little old bird woman comes.
In her own special way to the people she calls,
"Come, buy my bags full of crumbs.

"Come feed the little birds, show them you care
And you'll be glad if you do.
Their young ones are hungry,
Their nests are so bare;
All it takes is tuppence from you."

Feed the birds, tuppence a bag,
Tuppence, tuppence, tuppence a bag.
"Feed the birds," that's what she cries,
While overhead, her birds fill the skies.

All around the cathedral the saints and apostles
Look down as she sells her wares.
Although you can't see it, you know they are smiling
Each time someone shows that he cares.

Though her words are simple and few,
Listen, listen, she's calling to you:
"Feed the birds, tuppence a bag,
Tuppence, tuppence, tuppence a bag."

Baby Mine (Music and Lyrics by Frank Churchill and Ned Washington)
From the Walt Disney movie "Dumbo"


Baby mine, don't you cry
Baby mine, dry your eyes
Rest your head close to my heart
Never to part, baby of mine.

Little one when you play
Don't you mind what they say
Let those eyes sparkle and shine
Never a tear, baby of mine.

If they knew sweet little you
They'd end up loving you too
All those same people who scold you
What they'd give just for
The right to hold you

From your head to your toes
You're not much, goodness knows
But you're so precious to me
Cute as can be, baby of mine.

Brahms`Lullaby - Lullaby and Good Night (Music by Johannes Brahms)

**The original lyrics to Brahms Lullaby are in German and thus, the iambic pentameter and poetic rhyme is often lost when the words are directly translated into English. There are several popular English verses that have been written over the last century to the same tune and many of the more familiar verses begin with Lullaby and good night...**

Lullaby, and good night,
With pink roses bedight,
With lilies o'erspread,
Is my baby's sweet head.
Lay you down now, and rest,
May your slumber be blessed!
Lay you down now, and rest,
May thy slumber be blessed!

Lullaby, and good night,
You're your mother's delight,
Shining angels beside
My darling abide.
Soft and warm is your bed,
Close your eyes and rest your head.
Soft and warm is your bed,
Close your eyes and rest your head.

Sleepyhead, close your eyes.
Mother's right here beside you.
I'll protect you from harm,
You will wake in my arms.
Guardian angels are near,
So sleep on, with no fear.
Guardian angels are near,
So sleep on, with no fear.

Lullaby, and sleep tight.
Hush! My darling is sleeping,
On his sheets white as cream,
With his head full of dreams.
When the sky's bright with dawn,
He will wake in the morning.
When noontide warms the world,
He will frolic in the sun.

Ordinary Miracle (Music and Lyrics by Sarah McLachlan)

It's not that unusual
When everything is beautiful
It's just another
Ordinary miracle today

The sky knows when it's time to snow
Don't need to teach a seed to grow
It's just another
Ordinary miracle today

Life is like a gift, they say
Wrapped up for you everyday
Open up, and find a way
To give some of your own

Isn't it remarkable?
Like everytime a raindrop falls
It's just another
Ordinary miracle today

The birds in winter have their fling
And always make it home by spring
It's just another
Ordinary miracle today

When you wake up everyday
Please don't throw your dreams away
Hold them close to your heart
'Cause we are all a part

Of the ordinary miracle

Ordinary miracle

Do you want to see a miracle

It seems so exceptional
That things work out after all
It's just another
Ordinary miracle today

The sun comes out and shines so bright
And disappears again at night
It's just another
Ordinary miracle today

It's just another
Ordinary miracle today

Wednesday, May 6, 2009

Farley Lives Again!


I am an avid reader and I especially enjoy finding and reading children's books. Since his birth, we have enjoyed reading a variety of storybooks, rhymes, fairy tales, poems and picture books with JG. I have to admit that I not only look forward to naptime and bedtime for the peace and quiet but, also for the one-on-one cuddle time that I spend with my son during our reading adventures.

JG's ever expanding book collection contains many traditional and classic books we all know and love. But recently I have found myself searching for newer stories that JG and I can share together. Stories with compelling characters and exciting plots. Books which may one day themselves be considered "classic". Recently I was delighted to find such a book in "Farley Follows His Nose" by Lynn Johnston. Best known as the creator of the popular "For Better Or For Worse" comic strip, Lynn's children's book, featuring the classic and lovable sheepdog "Farley", will amuse any dog loving child and recapture the hearts of parents who have enjoyed the "For Better Or For Worse" comic series.

After a summertime bath "Farley Follows His Nose" in search of something to eat. Will Farley find something to curb his insatiable appetite? How far will Farley wander and what will he discover along the way? Be sure to share this endearing storybook with a youngster to find out!

Tuesday, May 5, 2009

18 Months Already - Where Did The Time Go?

I can't believe it has been nearly a week since JG reached the one and a half year mark on Friday May 1st. I had intended to start this blog on Friday and due to a painful accident of falling from a ladder and then battling a flu bug plus, my own procrastination; it is now Tuesday and I am just getting started.

On April 30th we took JG in for his 18 month pediatrics appointment and I am happy to state that he received glowing reviews. Now at 2 foot 10 inches tall and 35 pounds it is difficult to believe that JG was once underweight! I have to admit that I was slightly concerned that he was "growing" too well! I really try not to pay attention to society's preconceived ideas about physical appearances and child development however, it has sometimes been difficult to ignore the surprised looks from otherwise well-intentioned folks who make comments like "Wow, is he ever big!" and "What have you been feeding him?" I also worry about unrealistic assumptions that people can have regarding JG's skills and milestones. Yes, JG does have the physical height and weight of many 2-year olds but, his gross and fine motor skills and his language development are typical of children his own age. On a more positive note; we are very fortunate that we have a toddler who is more then happy to eat a variety of different foods including fruits, vegetables and proteins. Mealtime is generally relaxed and enjoyable. Unlike many of our friends who have struggled with getting healthy foods into their children; we don't seem to have these particular issues. We know that JG is getting a good variety of foods on most days so we don't panic when he decides he's not hungry. To quote one of our several toddler reads "one missed meal does not a starving child make!"

One of the reasons I feel that we have been successful at introducing JG to a variety of foods is because we never used canned baby food. We did start with infant cereals (rice, barley, oats) but, when introducing vegetables, fruits and proteins we made our own. The "Kidco" Electric Food Mill and "Blender Baby Foods" a fantastic book by Nicole Young are two of the best purchases we have ever made! The food mill is a little noisy but, it is a great size for travel and it makes a small to medium size quantity of food plus, it's fairly easy to clean. We've blended up small pork chop or chicken pieces in seconds and pureed or chopped steamed carrots, peas, broccoli and cauliflower in no time. The electric food mill can be purchased separately or as part of a complete feeding kit but, even if you're considering home-made baby food on a part time basis the Electric Food Mill is a must! The book, "Blender Baby Foods" is great for 1st time parents because even if you don't know where or how to start; the directions are simple and easy to follow. From mashing a banana with a fork at 6 months to vegetable frittata and multigrain pancakes at 9 and 12 months even the most reluctant cook will be a pro by the end of there child's first year. The only thing that has changed from when this book was published (2005) is that many pediatricians now recommend that parents introduce protein (meat, poultry, eggs, fish, beans and lentils) even earlier then 8 months. Which is okay because it just means you can use some of the future recipes and suggestions sooner.