On Wednesday (August 5th) I spent the evening with my Mom at the Edmonton Folk Music Festival at Gallagher Park. Both Tracy Chapman and Sarah McLachlan were fantastic. The hill was a sight to behold with thousands of people and hundreds of twinkling lights. Tracy performed many of my favourite songs including "Mountain O' Things" and "Talkin' About a Revolution." Sarah performed "Angel", Joni Mitchell's "River", "Ice Cream" and several other hits...
The Edmonton Folk Fest is now celebrating its 30th year. Hard to believe that I've attended more than 90% of those years. As a child the festival was small (with attendance in the low to mid hundreds) and while our parents enjoyed the music and relaxed atmosphere; us kids spent the weekend sliding down the steep hill on cardboard boxes or playing in the playground. During rainy weather we would scour the park for stakes and branches (or anything else that would be helpful for creating a plastic tarp lean-to). Then we would read, sleep or play card games while attempting to stay dry or dance in the sometimes knee deep mud until we were soaking wet and exhausted. Today, the festival is a huge event with more than eighty thousand attendees each year. Of course, sliding on the hill is no longer permitted (there's no room for it anyway) and the rules and regulations are now more stringent then the years of my youth; which is hardly surprising considering the number of people. It's still an amazing event though and I certainly hope that my children will have fond memories from future years at the Folk Fest too! Perhaps DH and I will make plans to attend next year's festival with JG and our newest addition due in March.
Friday, August 7, 2009
Sunday, August 2, 2009
Tantrums, Teething and Grandma...
I can't believe JG is already 21 months old as of yesterday. We went to the lake today and visited with family and JG's Grandma (My Mom). My Mom has been living in California for a couple of years now and so, we don't get to see her very often. The last time JG spent time with her was at Christmas when she flew in for a quick week-long visit.
JG however, isn't always receptive to other people's exuberant interactions. Like many toddlers he is still learning the fine social skills of interactive play. Throwing a ball back and forth for example, is difficult to encourage. Not that he won't toss a ball but, it isn't necessarily going to be in your direction.
Tantrums are also more frequent than they used to be and of course DH and I are not always sure how to handle them when we are outside the home and under the eye of public scrutiny. With JG's recent teething (he's currently getting his back molars) it is often difficult to discern whether JG is simply throwing a tantrum or if he is just hurting. Food wars are also more prevalent. JG has become more picky recently; and again, it is difficult to distinguish his stubbornness to try a new food from his lack of appetite or desire to eat. Of course, DH and I find it even more difficult to deal effectively with these situations with an audience of family members present. Although, everyone seems to have well intentioned suggestions regarding tantrums, teething, fussiness, food wars and countless other scenarios; I still find it more challenging to cope when we're outside of our home.
JG however, isn't always receptive to other people's exuberant interactions. Like many toddlers he is still learning the fine social skills of interactive play. Throwing a ball back and forth for example, is difficult to encourage. Not that he won't toss a ball but, it isn't necessarily going to be in your direction.
Tantrums are also more frequent than they used to be and of course DH and I are not always sure how to handle them when we are outside the home and under the eye of public scrutiny. With JG's recent teething (he's currently getting his back molars) it is often difficult to discern whether JG is simply throwing a tantrum or if he is just hurting. Food wars are also more prevalent. JG has become more picky recently; and again, it is difficult to distinguish his stubbornness to try a new food from his lack of appetite or desire to eat. Of course, DH and I find it even more difficult to deal effectively with these situations with an audience of family members present. Although, everyone seems to have well intentioned suggestions regarding tantrums, teething, fussiness, food wars and countless other scenarios; I still find it more challenging to cope when we're outside of our home.
Monday, July 27, 2009
Weight Wise & More Pregnancy Symptoms....
Well, I attended my first Weight Wise Workshop today (the beginning of an eight module course) meant to kick start my journey to better health....Of course the journey will certainly be even longer for me....The day I finally received my acceptance letter (nearly a year and a half following my referral) was the same day my pregnancy test came back positive....And so it goes....
Of course the pregnancy will set back my initial assessment at the clinic but, on a more positive note, I was pleased that my pregnancy shouldn't prevent me from completing all the necessary modules or remove my name/status from the clinic wait list....They will simply move my initial assessment to approximately six months following my due date. Of course this is not the best news but, it is better then waiting another year and a half following my delivery!
The "Getting Started" workshop was at least somewhat informative and it was comforting to know that I am not the only person out there who has some significant weight to lose or lifestyle changes to make! The instructor, Tiara, assured me that she would contact me tomorrow with more information related directly to my circumstances. I'm hoping that she will have some recommendations on how I might avoid the gestational diabetes diagnosis I received during my last pregnancy.
I'm only in my 8th week so, it will still be some time before a gestational diabetes test will be done. My risks are certainly higher due to the status of my first pregnancy but, than again....There have have been some significant differences between my current and previous pregnancies....
With JG, I had very minor episodes of nausea and fatigue. The only thing I couldn't eat was ice cream and of course I didn't experience spotting during my first trimester....with this pregnancy I have experienced several bouts of nausea, fatigue, vomiting, drowsiness and of course spotting plus, I can still eat ice cream. Perhaps one of the more positive outcomes will be a lack of gestational diabetes (here's hoping anyway!)
Of course the pregnancy will set back my initial assessment at the clinic but, on a more positive note, I was pleased that my pregnancy shouldn't prevent me from completing all the necessary modules or remove my name/status from the clinic wait list....They will simply move my initial assessment to approximately six months following my due date. Of course this is not the best news but, it is better then waiting another year and a half following my delivery!
The "Getting Started" workshop was at least somewhat informative and it was comforting to know that I am not the only person out there who has some significant weight to lose or lifestyle changes to make! The instructor, Tiara, assured me that she would contact me tomorrow with more information related directly to my circumstances. I'm hoping that she will have some recommendations on how I might avoid the gestational diabetes diagnosis I received during my last pregnancy.
I'm only in my 8th week so, it will still be some time before a gestational diabetes test will be done. My risks are certainly higher due to the status of my first pregnancy but, than again....There have have been some significant differences between my current and previous pregnancies....
With JG, I had very minor episodes of nausea and fatigue. The only thing I couldn't eat was ice cream and of course I didn't experience spotting during my first trimester....with this pregnancy I have experienced several bouts of nausea, fatigue, vomiting, drowsiness and of course spotting plus, I can still eat ice cream. Perhaps one of the more positive outcomes will be a lack of gestational diabetes (here's hoping anyway!)
Saturday, July 18, 2009
A Worthwhile Milestone!
JG learned to drink from a straw today....A small milestone perhaps and certainly one that I have witnessed younger children master but, I was overjoyed. With a little more practice we may actually be able to convince JG to forgo the sippy cup in favour of a straw....I am also hoping that it will help him with drinking from a cup. I have witnessed a vast improvement over the last several weeks but, it will still be some time before I will hand him a regular cup to drink from unsupervised. The ability to drink from a cup and straw were also mentioned in the "Encouraging First Words" workshop that DH and I attended last week. The ability to "drink" from a cup is believed to be connected to improved speech development. Definitely a worthwhile milestone.
I have been experiencing some brown to light-pink spotting (only when I wipe) since Tuesday afternoon (four days ago). The ultrasound on Thursday however, indicated that a healthy, developing gestational sack (approx. 6 weeks along) was visible. This reassurance was certainly worth the discomfort I experienced from the internal ultrasound. I'm still worried but, today the spotting seems to have nearly disappeared so, I am praying that this is a sign that everything is okay. I have an obstetrics appointment scheduled for next Thursday so, I am hoping that I will have a stronger certainty of where things are at once I speak with my doctor.
We're having tornado like weather this evening. It was hot day today (+33C) but, now the winds have picked up and the lightning storm outside our window is phenomenal. We have not experienced a Tornado directly in our city for over 20 years but, I would not be surprised in the least if one touched down tonight. I just pray that it isn't in our neck of the woods and that we don't have any damages to repair in the morning. Besides, I'm not looking forward to hunkering down in our dirt crawl space for the night...I'd almost rather fly to Oz!
I have been experiencing some brown to light-pink spotting (only when I wipe) since Tuesday afternoon (four days ago). The ultrasound on Thursday however, indicated that a healthy, developing gestational sack (approx. 6 weeks along) was visible. This reassurance was certainly worth the discomfort I experienced from the internal ultrasound. I'm still worried but, today the spotting seems to have nearly disappeared so, I am praying that this is a sign that everything is okay. I have an obstetrics appointment scheduled for next Thursday so, I am hoping that I will have a stronger certainty of where things are at once I speak with my doctor.
We're having tornado like weather this evening. It was hot day today (+33C) but, now the winds have picked up and the lightning storm outside our window is phenomenal. We have not experienced a Tornado directly in our city for over 20 years but, I would not be surprised in the least if one touched down tonight. I just pray that it isn't in our neck of the woods and that we don't have any damages to repair in the morning. Besides, I'm not looking forward to hunkering down in our dirt crawl space for the night...I'd almost rather fly to Oz!
Tuesday, July 14, 2009
Guilty As Charged...I Rest My Case!
When I was pregnant with our first child I had a close friend (whose opinion's I value highly) advise me that "You truly don't know what it's like to be a parent until you're knee deep in it!" Knee deep? Heck! Sometimes it's right over my head! I was prepared (well, as prepared as one can be) for sleepless nights, dirty diapers, a messy house, umpteen loads of laundry, sore breasts, a strong aversion to rekindling sexual relations with my spouse for the first six months (I'd have rather slept) and many of the other countless "joys" of parenting. One of the things I wasn't prepared for though was "The Guilt!"
Guilty for not continuing to breastfeed (our then underweight son) after only three months, guilty for not changing JG's shirt every single time he threw up (JG had an underdeveloped digestive system for the first nine months of his life and he could regurgitate several ounces of his stomach contents every 10 minutes), guilty for raising my voice when frustration gets the best of me, guilty for praying that nap time last just five more minutes so that I can have some more "me time", guilty, guilty guilty...It's never ending...
Over time I've learned to accept the fact that many of the daily things I feel guilty about are unwarranted. Our child is a healthy (and for the most part a happy) little boy). So far, we have managed to stay afloat financially and I think we have many good reasons to be thankful.
However, the floodgates of guilt always seem to open when family comes around. I love my family dearly and for the most part we are fortunate that we can remain civil, friendly and sincere most of the time. We have certainly been known to have family gatherings with holidays and celebrations reminiscent of a Norman Rockwell painting. But, there are times when I wonder if we are a little to comfortable in our laid back atmosphere. When tact and discretion are thrown by the wayside and replaced with criticism and judgement (no matter how subtle it may come across).
"So-and-so sure has packed on a few pounds lately." (of course the aforementioned party is no longer in the room or is absent from the event).
"Such and such really needs to take that dog of theirs to dog training"
"I'm trying to lose a few pounds"
"That's great...Here have some cake!" "Oh, one piece won't kill you!" "Besides it's your birthday!" "Would you like some ice cream too?" "I'll send the rest home with you!" (if guilt isn't already present; it soon will be!)
"Shouldn't he be talking by now?"
"As I explained yesterday (for over an hour...) we're looking into speech therapy. We have an appointment to get his hearing checked next month".
"Can't they get him in sooner?" "Have you checked with your own doctor?"
"Yes, the waiting list is quite long."
"Well, I just remember so-and-so's kids being much more talkative and attentive at this age!"
Me thinking....Yes, I know....Just like I explained yesterday...This is why we're doing everything we can to start an early-intervention program now so that he isn't delayed by the time he begins school (Did you even hear a single word I said yesterday? Obviously our son isn't the only one who needs to have his hearing checked!)
"You really need to get his hearing checked...Maybe that's the problem!"
Oy vey! (Me thinking again...I am very well aware and concerned about his speech delay...I have spent countless hours researching and exploring this very topic. I appreciate that you are concerned too. However, I AM NOT CLUELESS!) Can we stop talking about this now?
Why am I feeling guilty again?
Guilty for not continuing to breastfeed (our then underweight son) after only three months, guilty for not changing JG's shirt every single time he threw up (JG had an underdeveloped digestive system for the first nine months of his life and he could regurgitate several ounces of his stomach contents every 10 minutes), guilty for raising my voice when frustration gets the best of me, guilty for praying that nap time last just five more minutes so that I can have some more "me time", guilty, guilty guilty...It's never ending...
Over time I've learned to accept the fact that many of the daily things I feel guilty about are unwarranted. Our child is a healthy (and for the most part a happy) little boy). So far, we have managed to stay afloat financially and I think we have many good reasons to be thankful.
However, the floodgates of guilt always seem to open when family comes around. I love my family dearly and for the most part we are fortunate that we can remain civil, friendly and sincere most of the time. We have certainly been known to have family gatherings with holidays and celebrations reminiscent of a Norman Rockwell painting. But, there are times when I wonder if we are a little to comfortable in our laid back atmosphere. When tact and discretion are thrown by the wayside and replaced with criticism and judgement (no matter how subtle it may come across).
"So-and-so sure has packed on a few pounds lately." (of course the aforementioned party is no longer in the room or is absent from the event).
"Such and such really needs to take that dog of theirs to dog training"
"I'm trying to lose a few pounds"
"That's great...Here have some cake!" "Oh, one piece won't kill you!" "Besides it's your birthday!" "Would you like some ice cream too?" "I'll send the rest home with you!" (if guilt isn't already present; it soon will be!)
"Shouldn't he be talking by now?"
"As I explained yesterday (for over an hour...) we're looking into speech therapy. We have an appointment to get his hearing checked next month".
"Can't they get him in sooner?" "Have you checked with your own doctor?"
"Yes, the waiting list is quite long."
"Well, I just remember so-and-so's kids being much more talkative and attentive at this age!"
Me thinking....Yes, I know....Just like I explained yesterday...This is why we're doing everything we can to start an early-intervention program now so that he isn't delayed by the time he begins school (Did you even hear a single word I said yesterday? Obviously our son isn't the only one who needs to have his hearing checked!)
"You really need to get his hearing checked...Maybe that's the problem!"
Oy vey! (Me thinking again...I am very well aware and concerned about his speech delay...I have spent countless hours researching and exploring this very topic. I appreciate that you are concerned too. However, I AM NOT CLUELESS!) Can we stop talking about this now?
Why am I feeling guilty again?
Monday, July 13, 2009
The Amazing Dad & The So-So Mom...
I have to admit that my DH is a wonderful father. He's attentive, playful, encouraging, fun and is very involved in the life of our energetic toddler. As a stay-at-home Mom; I am also involved with nearly every aspect of our son's life and I am grateful that I have the opportunity to be at home with him. Like many stay-at-home parents however, I am also the one that pursues many more of the mundane aspects of parenting. Like the endless loads of laundry, monitoring the tight budget of a family living on one income and of course teaching our child the values, virtues and acceptable behaviours that are important to our family.
The decision for me to stay at home was simple...My DH brought home a more lucrative paycheck than I did and during my maternity leave the company I worked for was sold and restructured. Over 98% of the positions at the company were eliminated (including mine) and employees were payed (or more like pushed) out the door. After calculating the financial costs of child care, transportation, wardrobe essentials, bagged lunches and the countless other costs associated with going back to work it seemed ineffectual for me to return to the workforce. Plus, there were other considerations involved in our decision. We wanted more children and DH and I felt that if we could manage it; we wanted one of us to be at home during our children's primary years.
DH has usually left for work by the time JG wakes most mornings. When DH arrives home each day from work our toddler often greets him at the door with a fanfare befitting the Queen of England. I'm not surprised by this. Envious? Yes! But, not surprised. JG has just spent an entire day under Mommy's watchful eye and he is well aware that I will probably "be there" throughout the evening. Daddy on the other hand seems more like a daily visitor that arrives on gossamer wings to share stories of adventure and, with renewed energy, to play until bedtime. My energy of course has been sucked dry by a day fraught with a list of errands, chores and now first trimester pregnancy fatigue. Who wouldn't be excited by the arrival of "Super Dad" who is destined to save the day. After one of our more grueling days of non-stop discipline or hectic daily agendas I have been known to run to the door myself to greet DH with open arms and cries of "Amen and Hallelujah!" "Thank God reinforcements have arrived!"
It is wonderful to have the help and support of a loving spouse but, I have to admit that I am really getting tired of some of the subtle, yet frequent comments and gestures made by many well-intentioned family members. JG has become known as a "Daddy's Little Boy" amongst many of our family and friends and I am fine with JG being particularly close to his Dad. However, I could live without the many gender-biased innuendos and nuances shared by my family that regularly make me feel like an inadequate mother and caregiver.
Yes, my DH DOES change diapers (even the smelly ones), he dresses, feeds, bathes, disciplines and provides ample cuddles and goodnight kisses to our young son. I expect nothing less when our second child arrives next year. Like me, DH is an INVOLVED parent! Shocking? I think not! I never would have reproduced with a man who wasn't willing to take on the daily tasks and responsibilities of raising a child. In our house Parenthood is a shared partnership not a one-man (or should I say one-woman) show!
But, for some reason changing a diaper or settling our toddler down for a nap are tasks worthy of a standing ovation when my DH does them! Why is this? Is it that amazing that DH has somehow learned to be a competent caregiver over his last 20 months of Fatherhood? Is my DH (or anyone for that matter) really that deserving of a "Gold Star" each time he/she changes a diaper without complaint?
Why then, did I as a new mother always feel like I was supposed to "know it all" from the moment I gave birth to our son? I still feel like I will never achieve "Good Mom" status in the eyes of many family members. Not because I don't try to be the best Mom that I can be but, because the expectations are simply unattainable for ANY human being.
I am thrilled that our son is fortunate enough to know his great grandparents, I love that JG is close to his Dad and that my DH is such a willing participant on this long journey of parenthood. I only hope that we will be able to teach JG and future generations that the breadwinner/homemaker - hunter/gatherer roles are not related to gender but, are a collaborative effort between two hard-working, amazing people who want the best for their children.
The decision for me to stay at home was simple...My DH brought home a more lucrative paycheck than I did and during my maternity leave the company I worked for was sold and restructured. Over 98% of the positions at the company were eliminated (including mine) and employees were payed (or more like pushed) out the door. After calculating the financial costs of child care, transportation, wardrobe essentials, bagged lunches and the countless other costs associated with going back to work it seemed ineffectual for me to return to the workforce. Plus, there were other considerations involved in our decision. We wanted more children and DH and I felt that if we could manage it; we wanted one of us to be at home during our children's primary years.
DH has usually left for work by the time JG wakes most mornings. When DH arrives home each day from work our toddler often greets him at the door with a fanfare befitting the Queen of England. I'm not surprised by this. Envious? Yes! But, not surprised. JG has just spent an entire day under Mommy's watchful eye and he is well aware that I will probably "be there" throughout the evening. Daddy on the other hand seems more like a daily visitor that arrives on gossamer wings to share stories of adventure and, with renewed energy, to play until bedtime. My energy of course has been sucked dry by a day fraught with a list of errands, chores and now first trimester pregnancy fatigue. Who wouldn't be excited by the arrival of "Super Dad" who is destined to save the day. After one of our more grueling days of non-stop discipline or hectic daily agendas I have been known to run to the door myself to greet DH with open arms and cries of "Amen and Hallelujah!" "Thank God reinforcements have arrived!"
It is wonderful to have the help and support of a loving spouse but, I have to admit that I am really getting tired of some of the subtle, yet frequent comments and gestures made by many well-intentioned family members. JG has become known as a "Daddy's Little Boy" amongst many of our family and friends and I am fine with JG being particularly close to his Dad. However, I could live without the many gender-biased innuendos and nuances shared by my family that regularly make me feel like an inadequate mother and caregiver.
Yes, my DH DOES change diapers (even the smelly ones), he dresses, feeds, bathes, disciplines and provides ample cuddles and goodnight kisses to our young son. I expect nothing less when our second child arrives next year. Like me, DH is an INVOLVED parent! Shocking? I think not! I never would have reproduced with a man who wasn't willing to take on the daily tasks and responsibilities of raising a child. In our house Parenthood is a shared partnership not a one-man (or should I say one-woman) show!
But, for some reason changing a diaper or settling our toddler down for a nap are tasks worthy of a standing ovation when my DH does them! Why is this? Is it that amazing that DH has somehow learned to be a competent caregiver over his last 20 months of Fatherhood? Is my DH (or anyone for that matter) really that deserving of a "Gold Star" each time he/she changes a diaper without complaint?
Why then, did I as a new mother always feel like I was supposed to "know it all" from the moment I gave birth to our son? I still feel like I will never achieve "Good Mom" status in the eyes of many family members. Not because I don't try to be the best Mom that I can be but, because the expectations are simply unattainable for ANY human being.
I am thrilled that our son is fortunate enough to know his great grandparents, I love that JG is close to his Dad and that my DH is such a willing participant on this long journey of parenthood. I only hope that we will be able to teach JG and future generations that the breadwinner/homemaker - hunter/gatherer roles are not related to gender but, are a collaborative effort between two hard-working, amazing people who want the best for their children.
Friday, July 3, 2009
Ready to Sell Just in Time!
RP and LP came to visit with JG today and to inspect our house before we put it on the market. JG loved the hour he was able to spend with RP. RP took JG for a walk down the block to see the trains and he loved the extra attention. I was releaved that there are only a couple minor things we need to do before we sell (like cutting back a few tree branches)....We will hopefully have a Sale sign in the ground by Tuesday!
Another pleasant surprise occured first thing this morning. We're now expecting our second child according to the digital pregnancy test. Looks like we're preparing to sell and increase our living space just in time! I was due to start my cycle on June 28th and on the evening of June 26th I experienced some spotting. Only a day and a half earlier then expected so, I thought it was just a regular cycle. It's not the first time that I have started a day or two early and I usually start with light spotting prior to my cycle anyway; but, by June 29th I was done! I let it go for a few days but, by July 2nd I was more than just curious about what was going on. I also stopped in at my Weight Watchers meeting on the 2nd and was disappointed for the second week in a row that I have neither gained nor, lost a single ounce.
I could have taken the test when I got home that evening but, I decided to wait until this morning to perform the test when HCG levels are higher. I am certainly happy that there are now digital tests avaiable. Not that the non-digital ones are less accurate. It's just that the digital ones are so much easier to read and understand.
If my calculations are correct we should be welcoming our new arrival sometime within the first week of March. Hopefully we will be able to move and get JG settled into a new house sooner then later. A big boy bed and potty-training are just around the corner and now we will need to help JG prepare and adjust to a new sibling...It's gonna be quite the year!
Another pleasant surprise occured first thing this morning. We're now expecting our second child according to the digital pregnancy test. Looks like we're preparing to sell and increase our living space just in time! I was due to start my cycle on June 28th and on the evening of June 26th I experienced some spotting. Only a day and a half earlier then expected so, I thought it was just a regular cycle. It's not the first time that I have started a day or two early and I usually start with light spotting prior to my cycle anyway; but, by June 29th I was done! I let it go for a few days but, by July 2nd I was more than just curious about what was going on. I also stopped in at my Weight Watchers meeting on the 2nd and was disappointed for the second week in a row that I have neither gained nor, lost a single ounce.
I could have taken the test when I got home that evening but, I decided to wait until this morning to perform the test when HCG levels are higher. I am certainly happy that there are now digital tests avaiable. Not that the non-digital ones are less accurate. It's just that the digital ones are so much easier to read and understand.
If my calculations are correct we should be welcoming our new arrival sometime within the first week of March. Hopefully we will be able to move and get JG settled into a new house sooner then later. A big boy bed and potty-training are just around the corner and now we will need to help JG prepare and adjust to a new sibling...It's gonna be quite the year!
Sunday, June 28, 2009
Learning Shapes and Throwing Fits!
JG is certainly not happy when he hears the word No! Recently he has gotten into the habit of screaming when he doesn't get his way. We know that currently this is the only way JG feels that he can express his anger but, I am determined to help him find other ways to express himself. Currently we have been escorting JG to his bedroom and shutting the door for two minutes each time he screams in anger. I want JG to understand that it is "okay to feel angry" but, that "it is not acceptable to scream at us." I also want JG to know that his room is an appropriate place to go when he feels mad and needs a moment to regroup. At the same time I want to start giving him words he can use to express himself...
Me on the way to the JG's bedroom: "JG it's okay that you're angry but, it's not okay to scream at Mommy and Daddy when you're mad....You need to say "I'm really mad!"
Me upon returning to JG's bedroom 2 minutes later: "JG you can't yell at Mommy and Daddy when you're upset." You need to use words like "I'm really mad!" "Are you finished feeling mad?"
Usually after two minutes in his room JG is ready to rejoin us.
On a more positive note JG is finally learning how his shape sorters really work and he is now able to put most of the shapes into the sorter without adult help...He can now roll the shape sorter around by himself to find the correct hole that each shape fits into....He still has difficulty and minor frustration with some of the more complicated shapes (those that require you to manipulate the shape in a different direction to get it into the hole; like the pie or trapezoid) but, he doesn't have problems with the more basic shapes (circle, oval, cross or star).
DH and I also took JG on a wagon ride just prior to JG's naptime. JG was excited to go for a ride as always but, half way home JG's head was nodding and he was falling asleep so we rolled up Mommy's coat under his head and he slept in the wagon as we headed home! One of the sweeter moments of the day....
Me on the way to the JG's bedroom: "JG it's okay that you're angry but, it's not okay to scream at Mommy and Daddy when you're mad....You need to say "I'm really mad!"
Me upon returning to JG's bedroom 2 minutes later: "JG you can't yell at Mommy and Daddy when you're upset." You need to use words like "I'm really mad!" "Are you finished feeling mad?"
Usually after two minutes in his room JG is ready to rejoin us.
On a more positive note JG is finally learning how his shape sorters really work and he is now able to put most of the shapes into the sorter without adult help...He can now roll the shape sorter around by himself to find the correct hole that each shape fits into....He still has difficulty and minor frustration with some of the more complicated shapes (those that require you to manipulate the shape in a different direction to get it into the hole; like the pie or trapezoid) but, he doesn't have problems with the more basic shapes (circle, oval, cross or star).
DH and I also took JG on a wagon ride just prior to JG's naptime. JG was excited to go for a ride as always but, half way home JG's head was nodding and he was falling asleep so we rolled up Mommy's coat under his head and he slept in the wagon as we headed home! One of the sweeter moments of the day....
Friday, June 26, 2009
Ready to Leap as King of Pop Dies...
So, the King of Pop, Michael Jackson, died yesterday at the age of 50! It's hard to believe that the superstar (who made his professional music debut at the age of 11 as part of the Jackson 5) is really gone! What a fantastical life he had....From childhood stardom in a musically talented family, an amazing solo career that includes recording "Thriller"; the best-selling album of all time, extensive controversy over his continually changing appearance and behaviour, his "Neverland Ranch" property containing Ferris wheels, a menagerie and a movie theatre, allegations of child sexual abuse, his friendship with Elizabeth Taylor, his marriage to Lisa Marie Presley and of course the paternity of his children Prince Michael, Paris and Prince Michael II....
As strange and unusual as Michael was I am both sad and happy at the report of his demise. I am sad that such an incredible musical legend and entertainer is no longer alive. A man who's songs and unusual life influenced so much of my childhood in the 80's and 90's. I doubt a Halloween will ever go by where I won't yearn to watch Michael's "Thriller" music video just one more time! Michael popularized the "Moonwalk" and he is half the reason that the combination of leather and zippers were a fad for so much longer then it ever should have been! Despite all the controversy, suspicions and allegations I also admire his humanitarian efforts and charitable donations; many causes for which would not have been recognized or supported without Michael's support and generosity. Many of his songs including "We Are The World", Man In The Mirror and "Heal The World" will remain favourites of mine for years to come. Other favourite songs that obviously developed from the emotional scars and tragedies of childhood stardom and a controversial life including "Will You Be There", "Scream" "Childhood", "They Don't Really Care About Us" and "You Are Not Alone" would certainly not have been written or recorded without Michael's influence.
I am also sad for Michael's children and his family. No matter what the circumstances regarding Michael's life have been; my heart goes out to his children whom are no doubt suffering at the loss of their father. I only hope that Michael Jackson was smart enough to leave a will with conditions regarding the upbringing of his children. On the same token, I hope that the courts will have the decency to honour Jackson's wishes and requests. Yet, another poignant reminder of the importance to draft a will; particularly if you have children.
I am happy that the judgement of the world will no longer haunt every moment of Jackson's life. I truly hope that he can now rest in peace and that wherever his spirit may be now; that it is exactly where he would want it to be. Although Jackson's life (and inevitably his death) is littered with controversy, suspicions and allegations I am happy that his Judgement Day has come and that the "truth may finally set him free".
Just as Michael Jackson's life has ended JG is now learning to run and jump. Over the last couple of days JG is testing the limits of his balance by teetering on the very edge of the sofa, diving head first off the bed and tripping over things (including his own feet) in the rush to get somewhere (for which he received a small goose egg on his head today). Despite my continually repeated warnings and attempts to calm his enthusiasm; JG seems determined to test the laws of speed and gravity. It seems that just as one bruise heals another one appears. I think it may be time to take inventory and restock the first aid kit!
As strange and unusual as Michael was I am both sad and happy at the report of his demise. I am sad that such an incredible musical legend and entertainer is no longer alive. A man who's songs and unusual life influenced so much of my childhood in the 80's and 90's. I doubt a Halloween will ever go by where I won't yearn to watch Michael's "Thriller" music video just one more time! Michael popularized the "Moonwalk" and he is half the reason that the combination of leather and zippers were a fad for so much longer then it ever should have been! Despite all the controversy, suspicions and allegations I also admire his humanitarian efforts and charitable donations; many causes for which would not have been recognized or supported without Michael's support and generosity. Many of his songs including "We Are The World", Man In The Mirror and "Heal The World" will remain favourites of mine for years to come. Other favourite songs that obviously developed from the emotional scars and tragedies of childhood stardom and a controversial life including "Will You Be There", "Scream" "Childhood", "They Don't Really Care About Us" and "You Are Not Alone" would certainly not have been written or recorded without Michael's influence.
I am also sad for Michael's children and his family. No matter what the circumstances regarding Michael's life have been; my heart goes out to his children whom are no doubt suffering at the loss of their father. I only hope that Michael Jackson was smart enough to leave a will with conditions regarding the upbringing of his children. On the same token, I hope that the courts will have the decency to honour Jackson's wishes and requests. Yet, another poignant reminder of the importance to draft a will; particularly if you have children.
I am happy that the judgement of the world will no longer haunt every moment of Jackson's life. I truly hope that he can now rest in peace and that wherever his spirit may be now; that it is exactly where he would want it to be. Although Jackson's life (and inevitably his death) is littered with controversy, suspicions and allegations I am happy that his Judgement Day has come and that the "truth may finally set him free".
Just as Michael Jackson's life has ended JG is now learning to run and jump. Over the last couple of days JG is testing the limits of his balance by teetering on the very edge of the sofa, diving head first off the bed and tripping over things (including his own feet) in the rush to get somewhere (for which he received a small goose egg on his head today). Despite my continually repeated warnings and attempts to calm his enthusiasm; JG seems determined to test the laws of speed and gravity. It seems that just as one bruise heals another one appears. I think it may be time to take inventory and restock the first aid kit!
Tuesday, June 23, 2009
More Patience Required....
JG has discovered that he can get to where his is going much faster now if he runs. This of course means that there are also more opportunities for bumps and bruises. On Saturday JG took a spill on the concrete front landing of our house in his excitement to get out the door for gym class. Thus, JG is now sporting a scratch near his right temple down towards his eye lid.
He's been quite a trooper about his recent spills though. Despite the occasional scratch and bruise his main response is a disappointed "Oh No!" It's hard not to smile in spite of myself (It's just so darn cute when he says it!). DH says we should record JG using this phrase for posterity sake. I agree it would be a sweet memory if only our poor kid didn't have to hurt himself in order to say it! Regardless of how it came about; I am also happy to finally hear JG's use of the "N" consonant which up until now I have not heard him use! I am hoping that this might be a positive sign towards JG developing a broader vocabulary so that it will be easier for him to communicate.
I am patiently waiting for the "Encouraging First Words" workshop that DH and I are scheduled to attend on July 9th. I also received a call from an audiologist and JG is now scheduled for a hearing test on August 10th. I personally feel that JG's hearing is just fine but, it certainly doesn't hurt to get it checked.
I've realized that patience is a virtue I need to work on right now more then ever. If there is one thing that running after a toddler has taught me; it's that you can never have enough patience. JG loves to play the "chase me" game right now. So getting him to cooperate with diaper changes, getting dressed and even story time can result in frustration if I don't keep my impatience in check! Even during today's casual neighbourhood walk I found myself frustrated as JG played a stubborn game of walking a couple steps and then proceeding to sit down until I picked him up! Then after setting him down on his feet again we would repeat this process over and over again. JG was laughing a giggling and I was aggravated at my repeated attempts to keep him moving. What disappointed me the most was my response. I didn't know how to handle this newest defiance of my authority. It was just meant to be a casual walk in the sunshine. Something that JG and I usually find calming, relaxing and fun. I have now decided that our future walks will be accompanied by an umbrella stroller (at least for a little while) to prevent my impatience from getting the best of me!
He's been quite a trooper about his recent spills though. Despite the occasional scratch and bruise his main response is a disappointed "Oh No!" It's hard not to smile in spite of myself (It's just so darn cute when he says it!). DH says we should record JG using this phrase for posterity sake. I agree it would be a sweet memory if only our poor kid didn't have to hurt himself in order to say it! Regardless of how it came about; I am also happy to finally hear JG's use of the "N" consonant which up until now I have not heard him use! I am hoping that this might be a positive sign towards JG developing a broader vocabulary so that it will be easier for him to communicate.
I am patiently waiting for the "Encouraging First Words" workshop that DH and I are scheduled to attend on July 9th. I also received a call from an audiologist and JG is now scheduled for a hearing test on August 10th. I personally feel that JG's hearing is just fine but, it certainly doesn't hurt to get it checked.
I've realized that patience is a virtue I need to work on right now more then ever. If there is one thing that running after a toddler has taught me; it's that you can never have enough patience. JG loves to play the "chase me" game right now. So getting him to cooperate with diaper changes, getting dressed and even story time can result in frustration if I don't keep my impatience in check! Even during today's casual neighbourhood walk I found myself frustrated as JG played a stubborn game of walking a couple steps and then proceeding to sit down until I picked him up! Then after setting him down on his feet again we would repeat this process over and over again. JG was laughing a giggling and I was aggravated at my repeated attempts to keep him moving. What disappointed me the most was my response. I didn't know how to handle this newest defiance of my authority. It was just meant to be a casual walk in the sunshine. Something that JG and I usually find calming, relaxing and fun. I have now decided that our future walks will be accompanied by an umbrella stroller (at least for a little while) to prevent my impatience from getting the best of me!
Tuesday, June 16, 2009
Preparing To Sell
So it has been somewhat crazy around here the last couple of weeks. DH and I have been saying that we want to sell our house this summer and we still don't have a sign in the ground. We have been frantically trying to complete some minor renovations (like painting a few rooms) and I have been trying to declutter the house to the best of my ability. It's truly amazing how much stuff you discover that you own when you start the process of moving.
This isn't the first time we've moved but, this will be our first time "selling" a house. We were simply renters prior to owning our current residence. Packing for a move is one thing....Completing minor upgrades without breaking the bank and staging a house for sale is quite another. I know that we're getting closer to the finish line but, it still feels overwhelming. I just hope that we can get everything completed before the end of the month and that everything goes smoothly from there. We certainly could use more space and I hope that we will be able to complete the sale and move to a new home (wherever that might be) before the end of October!
I am always surprised at what I miss when leaving one home for another. Not that I've moved that many times but, there always seems to be something that I yearn for from previous residences. Perhaps it was a great location, a neighbour, the fantastic claw foot soaker tub or, such as will probably be the case with this house, the big backyard with the huge, uninhabited open field behind it.
Then of course there are the lessons I have learned from each move that have made me prioritize what will be important in the "next house." For example I will personally never move into a home that does not have a double kitchen sink. A lesson I learned when I left home to move into my first apartment. One of the features we failed to look for when we purchased our current home is "outdoor electrical outlets." This became apparent during our first winter in 2006 when we realized that we needed to plug in the block heater for the car and there were no plugins to do so. We ended up rigging up an extention cord in the crawl space which we fed through a vent to our car. Hanging outdoor Christmas lights was also a test of inginuity.
Changes in my life have also altered the necessities I look for when moving to a new home. This has become particularly apparent since we've started a family. For example I never really cared about the quality or location of the nearest elementary school prior to starting a family. Now it's a big deal. Like most parents I want the best for my children; starting with a good education. I'm also hoping that the school (at least for the primary years) will be close enough to our home so that our kids will be able to come home for lunch or, at the very least walk to/from school.
Space is certainly the biggest reason behind our current desire to move. We're currently living in a three-bedroom house with only a crawl space for storage. Since having JG the desire for a basement has now become a necessity. We also want a fenced yard for the sake of added privacy for ourselves and for the safety for our kids.
Yes, I understand that "the more space you have; the more junk you collect. However, on the same token I would also like to expand our family if we can. I would like to hear the pitter patter of more feet and I want to have a sibling for JG to play and yes, even argue with. Something that as an only child I did not experience. Although a sibling (and more children) can be daunting there are also lessons that are certainly learned from sibling rivalry.
This isn't the first time we've moved but, this will be our first time "selling" a house. We were simply renters prior to owning our current residence. Packing for a move is one thing....Completing minor upgrades without breaking the bank and staging a house for sale is quite another. I know that we're getting closer to the finish line but, it still feels overwhelming. I just hope that we can get everything completed before the end of the month and that everything goes smoothly from there. We certainly could use more space and I hope that we will be able to complete the sale and move to a new home (wherever that might be) before the end of October!
I am always surprised at what I miss when leaving one home for another. Not that I've moved that many times but, there always seems to be something that I yearn for from previous residences. Perhaps it was a great location, a neighbour, the fantastic claw foot soaker tub or, such as will probably be the case with this house, the big backyard with the huge, uninhabited open field behind it.
Then of course there are the lessons I have learned from each move that have made me prioritize what will be important in the "next house." For example I will personally never move into a home that does not have a double kitchen sink. A lesson I learned when I left home to move into my first apartment. One of the features we failed to look for when we purchased our current home is "outdoor electrical outlets." This became apparent during our first winter in 2006 when we realized that we needed to plug in the block heater for the car and there were no plugins to do so. We ended up rigging up an extention cord in the crawl space which we fed through a vent to our car. Hanging outdoor Christmas lights was also a test of inginuity.
Changes in my life have also altered the necessities I look for when moving to a new home. This has become particularly apparent since we've started a family. For example I never really cared about the quality or location of the nearest elementary school prior to starting a family. Now it's a big deal. Like most parents I want the best for my children; starting with a good education. I'm also hoping that the school (at least for the primary years) will be close enough to our home so that our kids will be able to come home for lunch or, at the very least walk to/from school.
Space is certainly the biggest reason behind our current desire to move. We're currently living in a three-bedroom house with only a crawl space for storage. Since having JG the desire for a basement has now become a necessity. We also want a fenced yard for the sake of added privacy for ourselves and for the safety for our kids.
Yes, I understand that "the more space you have; the more junk you collect. However, on the same token I would also like to expand our family if we can. I would like to hear the pitter patter of more feet and I want to have a sibling for JG to play and yes, even argue with. Something that as an only child I did not experience. Although a sibling (and more children) can be daunting there are also lessons that are certainly learned from sibling rivalry.
Friday, June 5, 2009
Under The Weather....
It has been nearly a week since my last post. JG had a cold on Tuesday and as per usual I caught it too! JG seems to have reovered quickly but, I have never seemed able to fight off cold and flu bugs easily. I was down for the count yesterday and althogh I dispise using television as a distraction I really enjoyed the extra cuddle and quiet time it allowed JG and I to have while we tried to recover yesterday.
One of my favorite children's authors is Karma Wilson and I particularly enjoy the "Bear" series of books she has done with illustrator Jane Chapman. The charming illustrations coupled with an enduring, child-friendly rhyming cadence makes these books popular with children of all ages. "Bear Feels Sick" is a perfect story to read when you or your kids are feeling under the weather.
Our recent weather also seems to be in agreement with our down-trodden mood these last couple of days. Windy, rainy and chilly would be the best words to describe the weather. At least I haven't needed to water the flowers I just planted in the front garden over the weekend.
One of my favorite children's authors is Karma Wilson and I particularly enjoy the "Bear" series of books she has done with illustrator Jane Chapman. The charming illustrations coupled with an enduring, child-friendly rhyming cadence makes these books popular with children of all ages. "Bear Feels Sick" is a perfect story to read when you or your kids are feeling under the weather.Our recent weather also seems to be in agreement with our down-trodden mood these last couple of days. Windy, rainy and chilly would be the best words to describe the weather. At least I haven't needed to water the flowers I just planted in the front garden over the weekend.
Saturday, May 30, 2009
Little Red Wagon
We finally found the wheels to JG's little, red wagon. They were in a safe place of course; at the back of JG's closet. As expected JG loved hanging onto the sides and going for a ride. I have to admit that it is much easier to pull him along in the summer months! The wagon does convert to a useful sled during the winter but, it works so much better with wheels. It also reminded me of a song or two....
Bumpin' Up and Down in my Little Red Wagon
Bumpin' up and down in my little red wagon
Bumpin' up and down in my little red wagon
Bumpin' up and down in my little red wagon
We're havin' so much fun
Pull me around in my little red wagon
Pull me around in my little red wagon
Pull me around in my little red wagon
We're havin' so much fun
Turn the corner in my little red wagon
Turn the corner in my little red wagon
Turn the corner in my little red wagon
We're havin' so much fun
Here come my friends in their little red wagons
Here come my friends in their little red wagons
Here come my friends in their little red wagons
We're havin' so much fun
Bumpin' up and down in our little red wagons
Bumpin' up and down in our little red wagons
Bumpin' up and down in our little red wagons
We're havin' so much fun
Bumpin' Up and Down in my Little Red Wagon
Bumpin' up and down in my little red wagon
Bumpin' up and down in my little red wagon
Bumpin' up and down in my little red wagon
We're havin' so much fun
Pull me around in my little red wagon
Pull me around in my little red wagon
Pull me around in my little red wagon
We're havin' so much fun
Turn the corner in my little red wagon
Turn the corner in my little red wagon
Turn the corner in my little red wagon
We're havin' so much fun
Here come my friends in their little red wagons
Here come my friends in their little red wagons
Here come my friends in their little red wagons
We're havin' so much fun
Bumpin' up and down in our little red wagons
Bumpin' up and down in our little red wagons
Bumpin' up and down in our little red wagons
We're havin' so much fun
Thursday, May 28, 2009
Learning Language
JG's development is right where it should be for both his gross and fine motor skills but, he is lacking in language skills; which has had me concerned over the last couple months. Although JG's pediatrician has assured us "not to worry" I am still determined to help JG reach these pivotal language milestones in any way we can. At his recent immunization appointment we were given a referral for a speech and language assessment. I contacted the assessment office today and as per their advice DH and I are now scheduled for an "Encouraging First Words" workshop on July 9th to get things started.
On Tuesday I visited with a friend who has a beautiful son approximately one year older then JG and a very happy 6 month old son who is an absolute joy. Her 2 1/2 year old has an excellent vocabulary. The 6 month old is already babbling and cooing. It won't surprise me if he will be an early talker as well. The youngest of the two was delighted to hear rhymes and songs. He was very observant regardless of whether he was lying in a swing or laying on the floor. Watching intently at the hand actions to "Insy Weensy Spider" and excited at hearing the alphabet song and numerous other tunes.
I've had many friends ask me if I "miss that age" and although I desperately want to say "yes" without hesitation; I can't. JG was a puker from the first day of his arrival. Not just plain spit up or an occasional bout of upset stomach. But, full out projectile vomit! We tried everything (breast milk, several different formulas and eventually medication (Prevacid twice per day). Even the soy based formula and medication didn't prevent the continual regurgitation we dealt with on a daily basis. JG hated swings and was usually not even happy lying on the floor. I don't recall a single day from his first eight months where JG's clothes or my shirt remained clean for more then a few hours. It was overwhelming!
JG has been read to at least twice per day since birth. We certainly sing our fair share of lullabies and songs and we do have an assortment of board books, puzzles and flashcards. However, because of JG's sensitive digestive system I don't know that we were able to play the fun action songs ("This Little Piggy", "Insy Weensy Spider", "Round and Round the Garden", etc) that most infants are exposed to. JG was often to busy trying to keep the contents of his stomach down. Observing the speech of adults was the least of his concerns. I feel somewhat guilty and I can't help but blame myself; wondering if perhaps I am at fault for JG's language delay.
Now as a toddler JG's digestion has vastly improved. The problem is, that like most toddlers, JG is not interested in staying still long enough to observe the mouth formations of the people around him. JG wants to dance, move, slide and run! So, what's a parent to do?
On Tuesday I visited with a friend who has a beautiful son approximately one year older then JG and a very happy 6 month old son who is an absolute joy. Her 2 1/2 year old has an excellent vocabulary. The 6 month old is already babbling and cooing. It won't surprise me if he will be an early talker as well. The youngest of the two was delighted to hear rhymes and songs. He was very observant regardless of whether he was lying in a swing or laying on the floor. Watching intently at the hand actions to "Insy Weensy Spider" and excited at hearing the alphabet song and numerous other tunes.
I've had many friends ask me if I "miss that age" and although I desperately want to say "yes" without hesitation; I can't. JG was a puker from the first day of his arrival. Not just plain spit up or an occasional bout of upset stomach. But, full out projectile vomit! We tried everything (breast milk, several different formulas and eventually medication (Prevacid twice per day). Even the soy based formula and medication didn't prevent the continual regurgitation we dealt with on a daily basis. JG hated swings and was usually not even happy lying on the floor. I don't recall a single day from his first eight months where JG's clothes or my shirt remained clean for more then a few hours. It was overwhelming!
JG has been read to at least twice per day since birth. We certainly sing our fair share of lullabies and songs and we do have an assortment of board books, puzzles and flashcards. However, because of JG's sensitive digestive system I don't know that we were able to play the fun action songs ("This Little Piggy", "Insy Weensy Spider", "Round and Round the Garden", etc) that most infants are exposed to. JG was often to busy trying to keep the contents of his stomach down. Observing the speech of adults was the least of his concerns. I feel somewhat guilty and I can't help but blame myself; wondering if perhaps I am at fault for JG's language delay.
Now as a toddler JG's digestion has vastly improved. The problem is, that like most toddlers, JG is not interested in staying still long enough to observe the mouth formations of the people around him. JG wants to dance, move, slide and run! So, what's a parent to do?
Friday, May 22, 2009
Just a Game of Bear Hugs
What a tough little guy we have! JG had his 18 month immunizations done yesterday and the only wet eyes in the room were mine (no tears but, they were watering pretty good). JG did give the nurse quite the evil look after the second needle (not that I can blame him) but, overall he was fantastic.
I suppose that after the countless falls (from learning to walk at 10 months) and the usual bumps and bruises experienced by most toddlers his age; JG would certainly be strong enough to withstand a couple pricks with a needle. But, as a mother I am truly grateful that JG's next set of immunizations will not need to be done until he starts school. Like most people, I am certainly not a fan of needles and I have not enjoyed watching my child being pricked with them either (even if they are necessary). Thankfully, I have always been able to arrange JG's immunization appointments so that DH could be there to hold JG steady.
With a son that is so much bigger and taller then many of his peers JG has a tendency to be overly affectionate (to the point of being aggressive) that often intimidates and scares his less energetic playmates. Recently, I have asked DH to try and be less rambunctious when playing with JG because although our son loves to roughhouse play with his Dad; I think that it is important that JG learn to be more gentle. I have certainly experienced enough of JG's "body-slam bear hugs" to know that our methods for teaching gentler behaviour could use some improvement.
JG loves to be around other children and he loves babies. He also loves dogs, birds and other pets. However, in his excitement, JG tends to invade the "personal space" of both the children and animals he is so intent on getting to know.
I don't think JG intends to hurt anyone and his aggression does not stem from anger or frustration. I think that JG just doesn't know his own strength and that his well-intentioned "bear hugs" and "love pats" have turned into a game. Unfortunately he doesn't realize that his acts of affection are becoming less and less gentle as he becomes older and stronger. I don't want to discorage JG from being the friendly, loving toddler that he is; I just would like to help him tone it down a little.
I suppose that after the countless falls (from learning to walk at 10 months) and the usual bumps and bruises experienced by most toddlers his age; JG would certainly be strong enough to withstand a couple pricks with a needle. But, as a mother I am truly grateful that JG's next set of immunizations will not need to be done until he starts school. Like most people, I am certainly not a fan of needles and I have not enjoyed watching my child being pricked with them either (even if they are necessary). Thankfully, I have always been able to arrange JG's immunization appointments so that DH could be there to hold JG steady.
With a son that is so much bigger and taller then many of his peers JG has a tendency to be overly affectionate (to the point of being aggressive) that often intimidates and scares his less energetic playmates. Recently, I have asked DH to try and be less rambunctious when playing with JG because although our son loves to roughhouse play with his Dad; I think that it is important that JG learn to be more gentle. I have certainly experienced enough of JG's "body-slam bear hugs" to know that our methods for teaching gentler behaviour could use some improvement.
JG loves to be around other children and he loves babies. He also loves dogs, birds and other pets. However, in his excitement, JG tends to invade the "personal space" of both the children and animals he is so intent on getting to know.
I don't think JG intends to hurt anyone and his aggression does not stem from anger or frustration. I think that JG just doesn't know his own strength and that his well-intentioned "bear hugs" and "love pats" have turned into a game. Unfortunately he doesn't realize that his acts of affection are becoming less and less gentle as he becomes older and stronger. I don't want to discorage JG from being the friendly, loving toddler that he is; I just would like to help him tone it down a little.
Wednesday, May 20, 2009
Parachute Songs
On Saturday we took JG to his regular Gymboree class where he always has lots of fun! During the "parachute play" portion of his class (something JG absolutely loves) the instructor often performs a lap song or two ("Grand Olde Duke of York" etc...) using a large, stuffed "Gimbo the clown" puppet. JG is usually much too energetic and excited to sit on our laps during any portion of his gym class; he prefers to dance and move around instead. However, on this particular Saturday, JG caught the attention of all the other parents when he approached the instructor during laptime and proceeded to give "Gimbo" a loving hug! I wish I had a camera to capture the moment.
The Grand Olde Duke of York (with parent/child actions)
He had ten thousand men
He marched them up to the top of the hill
And he marched them down again.
And when they were up they were up
and when they were down they were down
and when they were only half way up
They were neither up nor down
He marched them to the left
He marched them to the right
And then he marched them upside down
Oh, what a silly sight.
Movements
Sit with the child in your lap. Bounce your knees to simulate movement.
He marched them up - Slowly raise your knees to simulate marching uphill
Marched them down - slowly lower your knees to simulate marching downhill
When they were up - Quickly raise your knees
When they were down - Quickly lower your knees
When they were only half way - Set you knees at a height half way between all the way up and all the way down.
Marched them to the left - Lean your child to the left
Marched them to the right - Lean your child to the right.
Marched them upside down - hold your child upside down over your knees ( don't drop them ! ), then put them back in your lap
JG'S favorite part of parachute play is when we fly the colourful chute into the air and crawl under it creating a domed house. Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star is a popular song to sing while under the parachute and so are the following rhymes....
Red and Yellow, Green and Blue (sung to the tune "twinkle, twinkle, little star")
Red and yellow, green and blue
These are colours over you
Red like an apple
Green like a tree
Yellow like the sun
And blue like the sea
Red and yellow, green and blue
These are colours over you
Come Under My Umbrella
Come under my umbrella,
Umbrella, umbrella
Come under my umbrella
It’s starting to storm
With thunder and lightning
And wind and rain
Come under my umbrella
It’s starting to storm
The Grand Olde Duke of York (with parent/child actions)
He had ten thousand men
He marched them up to the top of the hill
And he marched them down again.
And when they were up they were up
and when they were down they were down
and when they were only half way up
They were neither up nor down
He marched them to the left
He marched them to the right
And then he marched them upside down
Oh, what a silly sight.
Movements
Sit with the child in your lap. Bounce your knees to simulate movement.
He marched them up - Slowly raise your knees to simulate marching uphill
Marched them down - slowly lower your knees to simulate marching downhill
When they were up - Quickly raise your knees
When they were down - Quickly lower your knees
When they were only half way - Set you knees at a height half way between all the way up and all the way down.
Marched them to the left - Lean your child to the left
Marched them to the right - Lean your child to the right.
Marched them upside down - hold your child upside down over your knees ( don't drop them ! ), then put them back in your lap
JG'S favorite part of parachute play is when we fly the colourful chute into the air and crawl under it creating a domed house. Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star is a popular song to sing while under the parachute and so are the following rhymes....
Red and Yellow, Green and Blue (sung to the tune "twinkle, twinkle, little star")
Red and yellow, green and blue
These are colours over you
Red like an apple
Green like a tree
Yellow like the sun
And blue like the sea
Red and yellow, green and blue
These are colours over you
Come Under My Umbrella
Come under my umbrella,
Umbrella, umbrella
Come under my umbrella
It’s starting to storm
With thunder and lightning
And wind and rain
Come under my umbrella
It’s starting to storm
Friday, May 15, 2009
Crayons & Paint Will Have To Wait...
Admittedly, today has been one of those days where I seriously questioned my desire to be a parent (or a stay-at-home mom at the very least). JG tested the limits of my patience today. So much so, that I actually cried.
I really do love being a mom and I purposely ignore the stereotypical statements made by so many others who describe the toddler years as "terrible" and "catastrophic." I prefer thinking of these upcoming months as the "terrific-twos" and "thriving-threes." Unfortunataly today was not one of those "sunnier side of life" days.
I am really looking forward to watching my child's creativity grow. I want to see our refridgerator doors covered in art. I want the handprint turkey's at Thaksgiving, the half-eaten gingerbread houses at Christmas and the stick-family portraits proudly displayed amongst unrecognizable play-doh sculptures. However today's mayhem of artistic blunders has me convinced that JG just isn't ready to express his inner-Picasso.
I tried colouring with JG this morning with his Crayola crayon Tadoodles but, he was more interested in throwing them on the floor then creating a colourful masterpiece. Later, I tried to entice JG to finger paint with the edible paints I made using vanilla pudding and food colouring. This again, did not encourage the open-ended creativity I was hoping for! Instead JG simply attempted to drink the paint from the paint pots and became irritable and whiny when I tried to persuade him to paint. While I was cleaning up from the unsuccessful finger paint disaster JG found the misplaced television remote and proceeded to climb a step stool so he could "wash" it in the soapy dish water. Although I did catch him before he immersed the entire remote in suds; the remote is not functioning very well and will probably need to be replaced. My final attempt at artistic fun with JG (before I burst into tears) was play-doh! This also failed miserably with JG being more interested in the play-doh containers then the actual contents!
I realize that today may just not have been the "right" day to encourage JG's creative side and that tomorrow could be an entirely different day. However, I think I will set aside the art supplies for a few days so that we can contine to hear the sounds of fun and laughter throughout the day instead of frustration and tears.
I really do love being a mom and I purposely ignore the stereotypical statements made by so many others who describe the toddler years as "terrible" and "catastrophic." I prefer thinking of these upcoming months as the "terrific-twos" and "thriving-threes." Unfortunataly today was not one of those "sunnier side of life" days.
I am really looking forward to watching my child's creativity grow. I want to see our refridgerator doors covered in art. I want the handprint turkey's at Thaksgiving, the half-eaten gingerbread houses at Christmas and the stick-family portraits proudly displayed amongst unrecognizable play-doh sculptures. However today's mayhem of artistic blunders has me convinced that JG just isn't ready to express his inner-Picasso.
I tried colouring with JG this morning with his Crayola crayon Tadoodles but, he was more interested in throwing them on the floor then creating a colourful masterpiece. Later, I tried to entice JG to finger paint with the edible paints I made using vanilla pudding and food colouring. This again, did not encourage the open-ended creativity I was hoping for! Instead JG simply attempted to drink the paint from the paint pots and became irritable and whiny when I tried to persuade him to paint. While I was cleaning up from the unsuccessful finger paint disaster JG found the misplaced television remote and proceeded to climb a step stool so he could "wash" it in the soapy dish water. Although I did catch him before he immersed the entire remote in suds; the remote is not functioning very well and will probably need to be replaced. My final attempt at artistic fun with JG (before I burst into tears) was play-doh! This also failed miserably with JG being more interested in the play-doh containers then the actual contents!
I realize that today may just not have been the "right" day to encourage JG's creative side and that tomorrow could be an entirely different day. However, I think I will set aside the art supplies for a few days so that we can contine to hear the sounds of fun and laughter throughout the day instead of frustration and tears.
Monday, May 11, 2009
Quotes Of Motherhood - Happy Mother's Day!
Well, it was a wonderful Mother's Day weekend. I received a lovely bouquet of flowers "with love from JG and Daddy" on Friday afternoon. On Saturday we took JG to his Gymboree class and enjoyed some quality time together and on Sunday we spent the better part of the day at the "Telus World of Science."
Telus World of Science? Somehow it just doesn't sound right! When I was younger it was called "The Space Science Center" and then later it became "The Odyssium." Now it is called "Telus World of Science." Corporate funding and thus, naming seems to have become the norm everywhere! From parks and zoos to stadiums and arenas it seems that every leisure and recreational location across the country requires a corporate stamp of approval to stay afloat.
I certainly believe in the adage that "it is better to give than to receive" and I do feel strongly that corporate donations are an integral part of renewing and improving public spaces. However, "corporate naming" has always seemed somewhat arrogant and patronizing to me. Recognizing a substantial donation of money is just and in many cases honourable but, renaming a facility for the sake of a financial contribution seems unnecessarily pretentious. What then do we offer corporations and individuals who give of their time and expertise instead of a padded wallet?
Mothers (and Fathers) certainly give a tremendous amount of time, love and expertise for which they often receive little; if any recognition. Thank goodness for Mother's (and Father's) Day! Otherwise we may just forget to remember and thank the important people in our lives that help us stay afloat!
MOTHERS
Real Mothers don't eat quiche;
They don't have time to make it.
Real Mothers know that their kitchen utensils
Are probably in the sandbox.
Real Mothers often have sticky floors,
Filthy ovens and happy kids.
Real Mothers know that dried play dough
Doesn't come out of carpets.
Real Mothers don't want to know what
The vacuum just sucked up.
Real Mothers sometimes ask 'Why me?'
And get their answer when a little
Voice says, 'Because I love you best.'
Real Mothers know that a child's growth
Is not measured by height or years or grade...
It is marked by the progression of Mommy to Mom to Mother...
The Images of Mother
4 YEARS OF AGE - My Mommy can do anything!
8 YEARS OF AGE - My Mom knows a lot! A whole lot!
12 YEARS OF AGE - My Mother doesn't really know quite everything.
14 YEARS OF AGE - Naturally, Mother doesn't know that, either.
16 YEARS OF AGE - Mother? She's hopelessly old-fashioned.
18 YEARS OF AGE - That old woman? She's way out of date!
25 YEARS OF AGE - Well, she might know a little bit about it!
35 YEARS OF AGE - Before we decide, let's get Mom's opinion.
45 YEARS OF AGE - Wonder what Mom would have thought about it?
65 YEARS OF AGE - Wish I could talk it over with Mom.
Telus World of Science? Somehow it just doesn't sound right! When I was younger it was called "The Space Science Center" and then later it became "The Odyssium." Now it is called "Telus World of Science." Corporate funding and thus, naming seems to have become the norm everywhere! From parks and zoos to stadiums and arenas it seems that every leisure and recreational location across the country requires a corporate stamp of approval to stay afloat.
I certainly believe in the adage that "it is better to give than to receive" and I do feel strongly that corporate donations are an integral part of renewing and improving public spaces. However, "corporate naming" has always seemed somewhat arrogant and patronizing to me. Recognizing a substantial donation of money is just and in many cases honourable but, renaming a facility for the sake of a financial contribution seems unnecessarily pretentious. What then do we offer corporations and individuals who give of their time and expertise instead of a padded wallet?
Mothers (and Fathers) certainly give a tremendous amount of time, love and expertise for which they often receive little; if any recognition. Thank goodness for Mother's (and Father's) Day! Otherwise we may just forget to remember and thank the important people in our lives that help us stay afloat!
MOTHERS
Real Mothers don't eat quiche;
They don't have time to make it.
Real Mothers know that their kitchen utensils
Are probably in the sandbox.
Real Mothers often have sticky floors,
Filthy ovens and happy kids.
Real Mothers know that dried play dough
Doesn't come out of carpets.
Real Mothers don't want to know what
The vacuum just sucked up.
Real Mothers sometimes ask 'Why me?'
And get their answer when a little
Voice says, 'Because I love you best.'
Real Mothers know that a child's growth
Is not measured by height or years or grade...
It is marked by the progression of Mommy to Mom to Mother...
The Images of Mother
4 YEARS OF AGE - My Mommy can do anything!
8 YEARS OF AGE - My Mom knows a lot! A whole lot!
12 YEARS OF AGE - My Mother doesn't really know quite everything.
14 YEARS OF AGE - Naturally, Mother doesn't know that, either.
16 YEARS OF AGE - Mother? She's hopelessly old-fashioned.
18 YEARS OF AGE - That old woman? She's way out of date!
25 YEARS OF AGE - Well, she might know a little bit about it!
35 YEARS OF AGE - Before we decide, let's get Mom's opinion.
45 YEARS OF AGE - Wonder what Mom would have thought about it?
65 YEARS OF AGE - Wish I could talk it over with Mom.
Saturday, May 9, 2009
Block Play
JG seems to have a renewed interest in blocks the last couple of weeks. For his first birthday JG received Mega Block sets from a few different familly members and friends. We combined all the sets into a large, clear, plastic box to make the blocks more accessible and easier to cleanup.
Unti just recently block play usually involved significant adult participation. Most of our block play invloved Mom or Dad building a tower and then JG knocking them over or taking the blocks apart. JG would occassonally add a block here or there but then he would quickly lose interest.
Over the past couple weeks we have observed JG purposely going to the block box to create his own small materpieces. JG is starting to build his own towers and he has begun to recognize that some of the blocks are the same shape and size so they fit together more easily. JG`s fine motor skills are also improving with his increased block play. Hopefully this will help JG master other activities requiring fine motor skills such as self-feeding and colouring.
Unti just recently block play usually involved significant adult participation. Most of our block play invloved Mom or Dad building a tower and then JG knocking them over or taking the blocks apart. JG would occassonally add a block here or there but then he would quickly lose interest.
Over the past couple weeks we have observed JG purposely going to the block box to create his own small materpieces. JG is starting to build his own towers and he has begun to recognize that some of the blocks are the same shape and size so they fit together more easily. JG`s fine motor skills are also improving with his increased block play. Hopefully this will help JG master other activities requiring fine motor skills such as self-feeding and colouring.
Thursday, May 7, 2009
Lullabies & Bedtime Songs
With approval from the paediatrician we bought JG his very first pillow yesterday. Just a small travel size pillow with a couple washable pillow covers. We have not moved JG out of his crib yet but, we felt that he was ready for a pillow. During the night we've usually found JG sleeping with his blankets rolled up under his head so the pillow should be a fairly natural transition.
JG was a cuddle bug yesterday and now that he is an active toddler I relish in the few precious moments when he just wants to rest his head upon my shoulder. Quiet moments when I would sing lullabies and gently rock him to sleep seem so long ago.
I still sing lullabies (though not quite as often) but, like many parents it took me some time and in many cases research to recall the lyrics to my favorite bedtime tunes.
Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star
Twinkle, twinkle little star,
How I wonder what you are.
Up Above the world so high,
Like a diamond in the sky.
Twinkle, twinkle little star,
How I wonder what you are.
When the blazing sun is gone,
When he nothing shines upon,
Then you show your little light,
Twinkle, twinkle all the night.
Twinkle, twinkle little star,
How I wonder what you are.
Then the traveller in the dark,
Thanks you for your tiny spark,
He could not see which way to go,
If you did not twinkle so.
Twinkle, twinkle little star,
How I wonder what you are.
In the dark blue sky you keep,
Often through my curtain peep,
For you never shut you eye,
Till the sun is in the sky.
Twinkle, twinkle little star,
How I wonder what you are.
Hush, Little Baby (Mockingbird Song)
Hush, little baby,
Don't say a word,
Mama's (or Papa's) gonna buy you a mockingbird.
And if that mockingbird don't sing,
Mama's (or Papa's) gonna buy you a diamond ring.
And if that Diamond Ring turns to brass,
Mama's (or Papa's) gonna buy you a looking glass,
And if that looking glass get broke,
Mama's (or Papa's) gonna buy you a billy goat.
And if that billy goat won't pull,
Mama's (or Papa's) gonna buy you a cart and bull.
And if that cart and bull falls over,
Mama's (or Papa's) gonna buy you a dog named Rover.
And if that dog named Rover won't bark,
Mama's (or Papa's) gonna buy you a horse and cart.
And if that horse and cart fall down,
You'll still be the sweetest little baby in town.
When You Wish Upon A Star (Lyrics by Ned Washington and Music by Leigh Harline)
(From the Walt Disney movie Pinocchio)
When a star is born
They posses a gift or two
One of them is this
They have the power to make a wish come true.
When you wish upon a star
Makes no difference who you are
Anything your heart desires will come to you.
If your heart is in your dream
No request is to extreme
When you wish upon a star as dreamers do.
Fate is kind,
She brings to those who love,
The sweet fulfillment of their secret longing.
Like a bolt out of the blue,
Fate steps in and sees you through
When you wish upon a star
Your dreams come true.
Somewhere Over The Rainbow (Music and Lyrics by E.Y. Harburg and Harold Arlen)
(From "The Wizard Of Oz")
**The second verse did not appear in the movie and thus is largely unknown even though it was part of the original score. Occasionally the second verse appears in some theatrical productions**
Somewhere over the rainbow
Way up high
There's a land that I heard of
Once in a lullaby.
Somewhere over the rainbow
Skies are blue
And the dreams that you dare to dream
Really do come true
Someday I'll wish upon a star
And wake up where the clouds are far behind me.
Where troubles melt like lemon drops
Away above the chimney tops
That's where you'll find me.
Somewhere over the rainbow
Bluebirds fly.
If birds fly over the rainbow
Why then, oh why, can't I?
If happy little bluebirds fly beyond the rainbow
Why oh, why can't I?
Someday I'll wake and rub my eyes
And in that land beyond the skies you'll find me.
I'll be a laughing daffodil
And leave the silly cares that fill
My mind behind me.
If happy little bluebirds fly beyond the rainbow
Why oh, why can't I?
Somewhere over the rainbow
Way up high
There's a land that I heard of
Once in a lullaby.
Somewhere over the rainbow
Skies are blue
And the dreams that you dare to dream
Really do come true
Someday I'll wish upon a star
And wake up where the clouds are far behind me.
Where troubles melt like lemon drops
Away above the chimney tops
That's where you'll find me.
Somewhere over the rainbow
Bluebirds fly.
If birds fly over the rainbow
Why then, oh why, can't I?
If happy little bluebirds fly beyond the rainbow
Why oh, why can't I?
Rainbow Connection (Music and Lyrics by Paul Williams and Kenneth Ascher)
(From "The Muppet Movie")
Why are there so many songs about rainbows
And what's on the other side?
Rainbows are visions, but only illusions,
And rainbows have nothing to hide.
So we've been told and some choose to believe it
I know they're wrong, wait and see.
Someday we'll find it, the rainbow connection,
the lovers. the dreamers and me.
Who said that every wish would be heard and answered
When wished on the morning star?
Somebody thought of that
And someone believed it,
And looks what its done so far.
What's so amazing that keeps us stargazing?
And what do we think we might see?
Someday we'll find it, the rainbow connection,
The lovers, the dreamers and me.
All of us under its spell,
We know that it's probably magic....
Have you been half asleep
And have you heard voices?
I've heard them calling my name.
Is this the sweet sound that calls the young sailors?
The voice might be one and the same.
I've heard it too many times to ignore it,
It's something that I'm supposed to be.
Someday we'll find it, the rainbow connection,
The lovers, the dreamers and me.
La, la la, La, la la la, La Laa, la la, La, La la laaaaaaa
Return to Pooh Corner (Music and lyrics by Kenny Loggins)
**This has to be one of my favorite songs and one of my favorite children's recordings. I usually buy this cd as a baby gift for any new parents I know. I have also calmed and settled many children including my own from simply singing this song - Thank you Kenny Loggins for writing it!**
Christopher Robin and I walked along
Under branches lit up by the moon
Posing our questions to Owl and Eeyore
As our days disappeared all too soon
But I've wandered much further today than I should
And I can't seem to find my way back to the Wood
So help me if you can
I've got to get back
To the House at Pooh Corner by one
You'd be surprised
There's so much to be done
Count all the bees in the hive
Chase all the clouds from the sky
Back to the days of Christopher Robin and Pooh
Winnie the Pooh doesn't know what to do
Got a honey jar stuck on his nose
He came to me asking for help and advice
And from here no one knows where he goes
So I sent him to ask of the Owl if he's there
How to loosen a jar from the nose of a bear
It's hard to explain how a few precious things
Seem to follow throughout all our lives
After all's said and done I was watching my son
Sleeping there with my bear by his side
So I tucked him in, I kissed him and as I was going
I swear that the old bear whispered
"Boy welcome home"
Believe me if you can
I've finally come back
To the House at Pooh Corner by one
What do you know
There's so much to be done
Count all the bees in the hive
Chase all the clouds from the sky
Back to the days of Christopher Robin
Back to the ways of Christopher Robin
Back to the days of Pooh
All The Pretty Little Ponies (Additional Lyrics by Kenny Loggins and David Pack)
**As I have mentioned above; the cd "Return to Pooh Corner" by Kenny Loggins is well worth the purchase for anyone looking for a truly wonderful collection of quiet bedtime tunes. All The Pretty Little Ponies (or Horses) is another traditional tune for which many people are familiar. I especially like this version of the song.**
Hush a bye
Don't you cry
Go to sleep my little baby.
When you wake
You shall have
All the pretty little ponies.
In your bed
Momma said
Baby's riding off to dreamland.
One by one
They've begun
Dance and prance for little baby.
Blacks and bays, dapples and greys
Running in the night.
When you wake
You shall have
All the pretty little ponies.
Can you see the little ponies
Dance before your eyes.
All the pretty little ponies
Will be there when you arise.
Puff The Magic Dragon (Music and Lyrics by Leonard Lipton and Peter Yarrow)
**Although the ending to this song is somewhat sad it is still one of my favorites to sing at bedtime.**
Puff, the magic dragon lived by the sea
And frolicked in the autumn mist in a land called Honalee,
Little Jackie Paper loved that rascal Puff
and brought him strings and sealing wax and other fancy stuff.
CHORUS
Oh! Puff, the magic dragon lived by the sea
And frolicked in the autumn mist in a land called Honalee,
Puff, the magic dragon lived by the sea
And frolicked in the autumn mist in a land called Honalee.
Together they would travel on a boat with billowed sail,
Jackie kept a lookout perch on Puff's gigantic tail,
Noble kings and princes would bow whene'er they came,
Pirate ships would low'r their flags when Puff roared out his name.
CHORUS
A dragon lives forever but not so little boys
Painted wings and giant strings make way for other toys.
One great night it happened, Jackie Paper came no more
And Puff that mighty dragon, he ceased his fearless roar.
His head was bent in sorrow - green scales fell like rain,
Puff no longer went to play along the cherry lane.
Without his lifelong friend Puff could not be brave
So Puff that mighty dragon, sadly slipped into his cave.
CHORUS
A Dream Is A Wish Your Heart Makes (Music and Lyrics by Mack David, Al Hoffman and Jerry Livingston)
(From the Walt Disney movie "Cinderella")
**A collection of bedtime lullabies would not be complete without a song about dreaming. It took us nearly two years to conceive JG and so this song is particularly dear to my heart.**
A dream is a wish your heart makes
When you're fast asleep.
In dreams you will lose your heartaches
Whatever you wish for, you keep.
Have faith in your dreams and someday
Your rainbows will come smiling through.
No matter how your heart is grieving
If you keep on believing
the dream that you wish will come true.
A dream is a wish your heart makes
When you're feeling small.
Alone in the night you whisper
Thinking no one can hear you at all.
You wake with the morning sunlight
To find fortune that is smiling on you.
Don't let your heart be filled with sorrow
For all you know, tomorrow
The dream that you wish will come true.
You wake with the morning sunlight
To find fortune that is smiling on you.
Don't let your heart be filled with sorrow
For all you know, tomorrow
The dream that you wish will come true.
No matter how your heart is grieving
If you keep on believing
The dream that you wish will come true.
Stay Awake (Music and Lyrics by Richard M. Sherman and Robert B. Sherman)
(From the Walt Disney movie "Mary Poppins")
Stay awake, don't rest your head.
Don't lie down upon your bed.
While the moon drifts in the skies
Stay awake, don't close your eyes.
Though the world is fast asleep.
Though your pillow's soft and deep.
You're not sleepy as you seem.
Stay awake, don't nod and dream.
Stay awake, don't nod and dream.
Feed The Birds (Music and Lyrics by Richard M. Sherman and Robert B. Sherman)
From the Walt Disney movie "Mary Poppins")
**I really love this song and I enjoy singing it to JG. I have friends whom feel the tune is too sombre for a bedtime lullaby but, I disagree so, I have included it here.**
Early each day to the steps of Saint Paul's
The little old bird woman comes.
In her own special way to the people she calls,
"Come, buy my bags full of crumbs.
"Come feed the little birds, show them you care
And you'll be glad if you do.
Their young ones are hungry,
Their nests are so bare;
All it takes is tuppence from you."
Feed the birds, tuppence a bag,
Tuppence, tuppence, tuppence a bag.
"Feed the birds," that's what she cries,
While overhead, her birds fill the skies.
All around the cathedral the saints and apostles
Look down as she sells her wares.
Although you can't see it, you know they are smiling
Each time someone shows that he cares.
Though her words are simple and few,
Listen, listen, she's calling to you:
"Feed the birds, tuppence a bag,
Tuppence, tuppence, tuppence a bag."
Baby Mine (Music and Lyrics by Frank Churchill and Ned Washington)
From the Walt Disney movie "Dumbo"
Baby mine, don't you cry
Baby mine, dry your eyes
Rest your head close to my heart
Never to part, baby of mine.
Little one when you play
Don't you mind what they say
Let those eyes sparkle and shine
Never a tear, baby of mine.
If they knew sweet little you
They'd end up loving you too
All those same people who scold you
What they'd give just for
The right to hold you
From your head to your toes
You're not much, goodness knows
But you're so precious to me
Cute as can be, baby of mine.
Brahms`Lullaby - Lullaby and Good Night (Music by Johannes Brahms)
**The original lyrics to Brahms Lullaby are in German and thus, the iambic pentameter and poetic rhyme is often lost when the words are directly translated into English. There are several popular English verses that have been written over the last century to the same tune and many of the more familiar verses begin with Lullaby and good night...**
Lullaby, and good night,
With pink roses bedight,
With lilies o'erspread,
Is my baby's sweet head.
Lay you down now, and rest,
May your slumber be blessed!
Lay you down now, and rest,
May thy slumber be blessed!
Lullaby, and good night,
You're your mother's delight,
Shining angels beside
My darling abide.
Soft and warm is your bed,
Close your eyes and rest your head.
Soft and warm is your bed,
Close your eyes and rest your head.
Sleepyhead, close your eyes.
Mother's right here beside you.
I'll protect you from harm,
You will wake in my arms.
Guardian angels are near,
So sleep on, with no fear.
Guardian angels are near,
So sleep on, with no fear.
Lullaby, and sleep tight.
Hush! My darling is sleeping,
On his sheets white as cream,
With his head full of dreams.
When the sky's bright with dawn,
He will wake in the morning.
When noontide warms the world,
He will frolic in the sun.
Ordinary Miracle (Music and Lyrics by Sarah McLachlan)
It's not that unusual
When everything is beautiful
It's just another
Ordinary miracle today
The sky knows when it's time to snow
Don't need to teach a seed to grow
It's just another
Ordinary miracle today
Life is like a gift, they say
Wrapped up for you everyday
Open up, and find a way
To give some of your own
Isn't it remarkable?
Like everytime a raindrop falls
It's just another
Ordinary miracle today
The birds in winter have their fling
And always make it home by spring
It's just another
Ordinary miracle today
When you wake up everyday
Please don't throw your dreams away
Hold them close to your heart
'Cause we are all a part
Of the ordinary miracle
Ordinary miracle
Do you want to see a miracle
It seems so exceptional
That things work out after all
It's just another
Ordinary miracle today
The sun comes out and shines so bright
And disappears again at night
It's just another
Ordinary miracle today
It's just another
Ordinary miracle today
JG was a cuddle bug yesterday and now that he is an active toddler I relish in the few precious moments when he just wants to rest his head upon my shoulder. Quiet moments when I would sing lullabies and gently rock him to sleep seem so long ago.
I still sing lullabies (though not quite as often) but, like many parents it took me some time and in many cases research to recall the lyrics to my favorite bedtime tunes.
Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star
Twinkle, twinkle little star,
How I wonder what you are.
Up Above the world so high,
Like a diamond in the sky.
Twinkle, twinkle little star,
How I wonder what you are.
When the blazing sun is gone,
When he nothing shines upon,
Then you show your little light,
Twinkle, twinkle all the night.
Twinkle, twinkle little star,
How I wonder what you are.
Then the traveller in the dark,
Thanks you for your tiny spark,
He could not see which way to go,
If you did not twinkle so.
Twinkle, twinkle little star,
How I wonder what you are.
In the dark blue sky you keep,
Often through my curtain peep,
For you never shut you eye,
Till the sun is in the sky.
Twinkle, twinkle little star,
How I wonder what you are.
Hush, Little Baby (Mockingbird Song)
Hush, little baby,
Don't say a word,
Mama's (or Papa's) gonna buy you a mockingbird.
And if that mockingbird don't sing,
Mama's (or Papa's) gonna buy you a diamond ring.
And if that Diamond Ring turns to brass,
Mama's (or Papa's) gonna buy you a looking glass,
And if that looking glass get broke,
Mama's (or Papa's) gonna buy you a billy goat.
And if that billy goat won't pull,
Mama's (or Papa's) gonna buy you a cart and bull.
And if that cart and bull falls over,
Mama's (or Papa's) gonna buy you a dog named Rover.
And if that dog named Rover won't bark,
Mama's (or Papa's) gonna buy you a horse and cart.
And if that horse and cart fall down,
You'll still be the sweetest little baby in town.
When You Wish Upon A Star (Lyrics by Ned Washington and Music by Leigh Harline)
(From the Walt Disney movie Pinocchio)
When a star is born
They posses a gift or two
One of them is this
They have the power to make a wish come true.
When you wish upon a star
Makes no difference who you are
Anything your heart desires will come to you.
If your heart is in your dream
No request is to extreme
When you wish upon a star as dreamers do.
Fate is kind,
She brings to those who love,
The sweet fulfillment of their secret longing.
Like a bolt out of the blue,
Fate steps in and sees you through
When you wish upon a star
Your dreams come true.
Somewhere Over The Rainbow (Music and Lyrics by E.Y. Harburg and Harold Arlen)
(From "The Wizard Of Oz")
**The second verse did not appear in the movie and thus is largely unknown even though it was part of the original score. Occasionally the second verse appears in some theatrical productions**
Somewhere over the rainbow
Way up high
There's a land that I heard of
Once in a lullaby.
Somewhere over the rainbow
Skies are blue
And the dreams that you dare to dream
Really do come true
Someday I'll wish upon a star
And wake up where the clouds are far behind me.
Where troubles melt like lemon drops
Away above the chimney tops
That's where you'll find me.
Somewhere over the rainbow
Bluebirds fly.
If birds fly over the rainbow
Why then, oh why, can't I?
If happy little bluebirds fly beyond the rainbow
Why oh, why can't I?
Someday I'll wake and rub my eyes
And in that land beyond the skies you'll find me.
I'll be a laughing daffodil
And leave the silly cares that fill
My mind behind me.
If happy little bluebirds fly beyond the rainbow
Why oh, why can't I?
Somewhere over the rainbow
Way up high
There's a land that I heard of
Once in a lullaby.
Somewhere over the rainbow
Skies are blue
And the dreams that you dare to dream
Really do come true
Someday I'll wish upon a star
And wake up where the clouds are far behind me.
Where troubles melt like lemon drops
Away above the chimney tops
That's where you'll find me.
Somewhere over the rainbow
Bluebirds fly.
If birds fly over the rainbow
Why then, oh why, can't I?
If happy little bluebirds fly beyond the rainbow
Why oh, why can't I?
Rainbow Connection (Music and Lyrics by Paul Williams and Kenneth Ascher)
(From "The Muppet Movie")
Why are there so many songs about rainbows
And what's on the other side?
Rainbows are visions, but only illusions,
And rainbows have nothing to hide.
So we've been told and some choose to believe it
I know they're wrong, wait and see.
Someday we'll find it, the rainbow connection,
the lovers. the dreamers and me.
Who said that every wish would be heard and answered
When wished on the morning star?
Somebody thought of that
And someone believed it,
And looks what its done so far.
What's so amazing that keeps us stargazing?
And what do we think we might see?
Someday we'll find it, the rainbow connection,
The lovers, the dreamers and me.
All of us under its spell,
We know that it's probably magic....
Have you been half asleep
And have you heard voices?
I've heard them calling my name.
Is this the sweet sound that calls the young sailors?
The voice might be one and the same.
I've heard it too many times to ignore it,
It's something that I'm supposed to be.
Someday we'll find it, the rainbow connection,
The lovers, the dreamers and me.
La, la la, La, la la la, La Laa, la la, La, La la laaaaaaa
Return to Pooh Corner (Music and lyrics by Kenny Loggins)
**This has to be one of my favorite songs and one of my favorite children's recordings. I usually buy this cd as a baby gift for any new parents I know. I have also calmed and settled many children including my own from simply singing this song - Thank you Kenny Loggins for writing it!**
Christopher Robin and I walked along
Under branches lit up by the moon
Posing our questions to Owl and Eeyore
As our days disappeared all too soon
But I've wandered much further today than I should
And I can't seem to find my way back to the Wood
So help me if you can
I've got to get back
To the House at Pooh Corner by one
You'd be surprised
There's so much to be done
Count all the bees in the hive
Chase all the clouds from the sky
Back to the days of Christopher Robin and Pooh
Winnie the Pooh doesn't know what to do
Got a honey jar stuck on his nose
He came to me asking for help and advice
And from here no one knows where he goes
So I sent him to ask of the Owl if he's there
How to loosen a jar from the nose of a bear
It's hard to explain how a few precious things
Seem to follow throughout all our lives
After all's said and done I was watching my son
Sleeping there with my bear by his side
So I tucked him in, I kissed him and as I was going
I swear that the old bear whispered
"Boy welcome home"
Believe me if you can
I've finally come back
To the House at Pooh Corner by one
What do you know
There's so much to be done
Count all the bees in the hive
Chase all the clouds from the sky
Back to the days of Christopher Robin
Back to the ways of Christopher Robin
Back to the days of Pooh
All The Pretty Little Ponies (Additional Lyrics by Kenny Loggins and David Pack)
**As I have mentioned above; the cd "Return to Pooh Corner" by Kenny Loggins is well worth the purchase for anyone looking for a truly wonderful collection of quiet bedtime tunes. All The Pretty Little Ponies (or Horses) is another traditional tune for which many people are familiar. I especially like this version of the song.**
Hush a bye
Don't you cry
Go to sleep my little baby.
When you wake
You shall have
All the pretty little ponies.
In your bed
Momma said
Baby's riding off to dreamland.
One by one
They've begun
Dance and prance for little baby.
Blacks and bays, dapples and greys
Running in the night.
When you wake
You shall have
All the pretty little ponies.
Can you see the little ponies
Dance before your eyes.
All the pretty little ponies
Will be there when you arise.
Puff The Magic Dragon (Music and Lyrics by Leonard Lipton and Peter Yarrow)
**Although the ending to this song is somewhat sad it is still one of my favorites to sing at bedtime.**
Puff, the magic dragon lived by the sea
And frolicked in the autumn mist in a land called Honalee,
Little Jackie Paper loved that rascal Puff
and brought him strings and sealing wax and other fancy stuff.
CHORUS
Oh! Puff, the magic dragon lived by the sea
And frolicked in the autumn mist in a land called Honalee,
Puff, the magic dragon lived by the sea
And frolicked in the autumn mist in a land called Honalee.
Together they would travel on a boat with billowed sail,
Jackie kept a lookout perch on Puff's gigantic tail,
Noble kings and princes would bow whene'er they came,
Pirate ships would low'r their flags when Puff roared out his name.
CHORUS
A dragon lives forever but not so little boys
Painted wings and giant strings make way for other toys.
One great night it happened, Jackie Paper came no more
And Puff that mighty dragon, he ceased his fearless roar.
His head was bent in sorrow - green scales fell like rain,
Puff no longer went to play along the cherry lane.
Without his lifelong friend Puff could not be brave
So Puff that mighty dragon, sadly slipped into his cave.
CHORUS
A Dream Is A Wish Your Heart Makes (Music and Lyrics by Mack David, Al Hoffman and Jerry Livingston)
(From the Walt Disney movie "Cinderella")
**A collection of bedtime lullabies would not be complete without a song about dreaming. It took us nearly two years to conceive JG and so this song is particularly dear to my heart.**
A dream is a wish your heart makes
When you're fast asleep.
In dreams you will lose your heartaches
Whatever you wish for, you keep.
Have faith in your dreams and someday
Your rainbows will come smiling through.
No matter how your heart is grieving
If you keep on believing
the dream that you wish will come true.
A dream is a wish your heart makes
When you're feeling small.
Alone in the night you whisper
Thinking no one can hear you at all.
You wake with the morning sunlight
To find fortune that is smiling on you.
Don't let your heart be filled with sorrow
For all you know, tomorrow
The dream that you wish will come true.
You wake with the morning sunlight
To find fortune that is smiling on you.
Don't let your heart be filled with sorrow
For all you know, tomorrow
The dream that you wish will come true.
No matter how your heart is grieving
If you keep on believing
The dream that you wish will come true.
Stay Awake (Music and Lyrics by Richard M. Sherman and Robert B. Sherman)
(From the Walt Disney movie "Mary Poppins")
Stay awake, don't rest your head.
Don't lie down upon your bed.
While the moon drifts in the skies
Stay awake, don't close your eyes.
Though the world is fast asleep.
Though your pillow's soft and deep.
You're not sleepy as you seem.
Stay awake, don't nod and dream.
Stay awake, don't nod and dream.
Feed The Birds (Music and Lyrics by Richard M. Sherman and Robert B. Sherman)
From the Walt Disney movie "Mary Poppins")
**I really love this song and I enjoy singing it to JG. I have friends whom feel the tune is too sombre for a bedtime lullaby but, I disagree so, I have included it here.**
Early each day to the steps of Saint Paul's
The little old bird woman comes.
In her own special way to the people she calls,
"Come, buy my bags full of crumbs.
"Come feed the little birds, show them you care
And you'll be glad if you do.
Their young ones are hungry,
Their nests are so bare;
All it takes is tuppence from you."
Feed the birds, tuppence a bag,
Tuppence, tuppence, tuppence a bag.
"Feed the birds," that's what she cries,
While overhead, her birds fill the skies.
All around the cathedral the saints and apostles
Look down as she sells her wares.
Although you can't see it, you know they are smiling
Each time someone shows that he cares.
Though her words are simple and few,
Listen, listen, she's calling to you:
"Feed the birds, tuppence a bag,
Tuppence, tuppence, tuppence a bag."
Baby Mine (Music and Lyrics by Frank Churchill and Ned Washington)
From the Walt Disney movie "Dumbo"
Baby mine, don't you cry
Baby mine, dry your eyes
Rest your head close to my heart
Never to part, baby of mine.
Little one when you play
Don't you mind what they say
Let those eyes sparkle and shine
Never a tear, baby of mine.
If they knew sweet little you
They'd end up loving you too
All those same people who scold you
What they'd give just for
The right to hold you
From your head to your toes
You're not much, goodness knows
But you're so precious to me
Cute as can be, baby of mine.
Brahms`Lullaby - Lullaby and Good Night (Music by Johannes Brahms)
**The original lyrics to Brahms Lullaby are in German and thus, the iambic pentameter and poetic rhyme is often lost when the words are directly translated into English. There are several popular English verses that have been written over the last century to the same tune and many of the more familiar verses begin with Lullaby and good night...**
Lullaby, and good night,
With pink roses bedight,
With lilies o'erspread,
Is my baby's sweet head.
Lay you down now, and rest,
May your slumber be blessed!
Lay you down now, and rest,
May thy slumber be blessed!
Lullaby, and good night,
You're your mother's delight,
Shining angels beside
My darling abide.
Soft and warm is your bed,
Close your eyes and rest your head.
Soft and warm is your bed,
Close your eyes and rest your head.
Sleepyhead, close your eyes.
Mother's right here beside you.
I'll protect you from harm,
You will wake in my arms.
Guardian angels are near,
So sleep on, with no fear.
Guardian angels are near,
So sleep on, with no fear.
Lullaby, and sleep tight.
Hush! My darling is sleeping,
On his sheets white as cream,
With his head full of dreams.
When the sky's bright with dawn,
He will wake in the morning.
When noontide warms the world,
He will frolic in the sun.
Ordinary Miracle (Music and Lyrics by Sarah McLachlan)
It's not that unusual
When everything is beautiful
It's just another
Ordinary miracle today
The sky knows when it's time to snow
Don't need to teach a seed to grow
It's just another
Ordinary miracle today
Life is like a gift, they say
Wrapped up for you everyday
Open up, and find a way
To give some of your own
Isn't it remarkable?
Like everytime a raindrop falls
It's just another
Ordinary miracle today
The birds in winter have their fling
And always make it home by spring
It's just another
Ordinary miracle today
When you wake up everyday
Please don't throw your dreams away
Hold them close to your heart
'Cause we are all a part
Of the ordinary miracle
Ordinary miracle
Do you want to see a miracle
It seems so exceptional
That things work out after all
It's just another
Ordinary miracle today
The sun comes out and shines so bright
And disappears again at night
It's just another
Ordinary miracle today
It's just another
Ordinary miracle today
Wednesday, May 6, 2009
Farley Lives Again!
I am an avid reader and I especially enjoy finding and reading children's books. Since his birth, we have enjoyed reading a variety of storybooks, rhymes, fairy tales, poems and picture books with JG. I have to admit that I not only look forward to naptime and bedtime for the peace and quiet but, also for the one-on-one cuddle time that I spend with my son during our reading adventures.
JG's ever expanding book collection contains many traditional and classic books we all know and love. But recently I have found myself searching for newer stories that JG and I can share together. Stories with compelling characters and exciting plots. Books which may one day themselves be considered "classic". Recently I was delighted to find such a book in "Farley Follows His Nose" by Lynn Johnston. Best known as the creator of the popular "For Better Or For Worse" comic strip, Lynn's children's book, featuring the classic and lovable sheepdog "Farley", will amuse any dog loving child and recapture the hearts of parents who have enjoyed the "For Better Or For Worse" comic series.
After a summertime bath "Farley Follows His Nose" in search of something to eat. Will Farley find something to curb his insatiable appetite? How far will Farley wander and what will he discover along the way? Be sure to share this endearing storybook with a youngster to find out!
Tuesday, May 5, 2009
18 Months Already - Where Did The Time Go?
I can't believe it has been nearly a week since JG reached the one and a half year mark on Friday May 1st. I had intended to start this blog on Friday and due to a painful accident of falling from a ladder and then battling a flu bug plus, my own procrastination; it is now Tuesday and I am just getting started.
On April 30th we took JG in for his 18 month pediatrics appointment and I am happy to state that he received glowing reviews. Now at 2 foot 10 inches tall and 35 pounds it is difficult to believe that JG was once underweight! I have to admit that I was slightly concerned that he was "growing" too well! I really try not to pay attention to society's preconceived ideas about physical appearances and child development however, it has sometimes been difficult to ignore the surprised looks from otherwise well-intentioned folks who make comments like "Wow, is he ever big!" and "What have you been feeding him?" I also worry about unrealistic assumptions that people can have regarding JG's skills and milestones. Yes, JG does have the physical height and weight of many 2-year olds but, his gross and fine motor skills and his language development are typical of children his own age. On a more positive note; we are very fortunate that we have a toddler who is more then happy to eat a variety of different foods including fruits, vegetables and proteins. Mealtime is generally relaxed and enjoyable. Unlike many of our friends who have struggled with getting healthy foods into their children; we don't seem to have these particular issues. We know that JG is getting a good variety of foods on most days so we don't panic when he decides he's not hungry. To quote one of our several toddler reads "one missed meal does not a starving child make!"
One of the reasons I feel that we have been successful at introducing JG to a variety of foods is because we never used canned baby food. We did start with infant cereals (rice, barley, oats) but, when introducing vegetables, fruits and proteins we made our own. The "Kidco" Electric Food Mill and "Blender Baby Foods" a fantastic book by Nicole Young are two of the best purchases we have ever made! The food mill is a little noisy but, it is a great size for travel and it makes a small to medium size quantity of food plus, it's fairly easy to clean. We've blended up small pork chop or chicken pieces in seconds and pureed or chopped steamed carrots, peas, broccoli and cauliflower in no time. The electric food mill can be purchased separately or as part of a complete feeding kit but, even if you're considering home-made baby food on a part time basis the Electric Food Mill is a must! The book, "Blender Baby Foods" is great for 1st time parents because even if you don't know where or how to start; the directions are simple and easy to follow. From mashing a banana with a fork at 6 months to vegetable frittata and multigrain pancakes at 9 and 12 months even the most reluctant cook will be a pro by the end of there child's first year. The only thing that has changed from when this book was published (2005) is that many pediatricians now recommend that parents introduce protein (meat, poultry, eggs, fish, beans and lentils) even earlier then 8 months. Which is okay because it just means you can use some of the future recipes and suggestions sooner.
On April 30th we took JG in for his 18 month pediatrics appointment and I am happy to state that he received glowing reviews. Now at 2 foot 10 inches tall and 35 pounds it is difficult to believe that JG was once underweight! I have to admit that I was slightly concerned that he was "growing" too well! I really try not to pay attention to society's preconceived ideas about physical appearances and child development however, it has sometimes been difficult to ignore the surprised looks from otherwise well-intentioned folks who make comments like "Wow, is he ever big!" and "What have you been feeding him?" I also worry about unrealistic assumptions that people can have regarding JG's skills and milestones. Yes, JG does have the physical height and weight of many 2-year olds but, his gross and fine motor skills and his language development are typical of children his own age. On a more positive note; we are very fortunate that we have a toddler who is more then happy to eat a variety of different foods including fruits, vegetables and proteins. Mealtime is generally relaxed and enjoyable. Unlike many of our friends who have struggled with getting healthy foods into their children; we don't seem to have these particular issues. We know that JG is getting a good variety of foods on most days so we don't panic when he decides he's not hungry. To quote one of our several toddler reads "one missed meal does not a starving child make!"
One of the reasons I feel that we have been successful at introducing JG to a variety of foods is because we never used canned baby food. We did start with infant cereals (rice, barley, oats) but, when introducing vegetables, fruits and proteins we made our own. The "Kidco" Electric Food Mill and "Blender Baby Foods" a fantastic book by Nicole Young are two of the best purchases we have ever made! The food mill is a little noisy but, it is a great size for travel and it makes a small to medium size quantity of food plus, it's fairly easy to clean. We've blended up small pork chop or chicken pieces in seconds and pureed or chopped steamed carrots, peas, broccoli and cauliflower in no time. The electric food mill can be purchased separately or as part of a complete feeding kit but, even if you're considering home-made baby food on a part time basis the Electric Food Mill is a must! The book, "Blender Baby Foods" is great for 1st time parents because even if you don't know where or how to start; the directions are simple and easy to follow. From mashing a banana with a fork at 6 months to vegetable frittata and multigrain pancakes at 9 and 12 months even the most reluctant cook will be a pro by the end of there child's first year. The only thing that has changed from when this book was published (2005) is that many pediatricians now recommend that parents introduce protein (meat, poultry, eggs, fish, beans and lentils) even earlier then 8 months. Which is okay because it just means you can use some of the future recipes and suggestions sooner.
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